Callibrating my C&F. I don't know if I'm doing it right

[Guest]

Hey guys I've been doing a lot of sarging lately, and I can't seem to get girls really attracted with C&F.

Questions:
1. Do you smile the whole time? Do you wink? How obvious do you make it that you are joking around. How playful are you?
2. I get a lot of logical responses, like girls being logical instead of getting that I'm just teasing them. Am I being to condescending, like I almost come across mean maybe...

Any suggestions would be great, and I know it's hard to communicate stuff like this online.

Erock

[Guest]

Don't use cocky funny the entire time. You want to be sure your throwing some routines and kino in. I use cocky funny mostly for the day 2 not during the initial attraction. Besides negging her and showing high value, thats as cocky as I get during the first phase.

[Guest]

I think the key to C&F is balance. There is a fine line between cocky good and cocky bad as well as funny good and funny bad.

Being overly cocky will push everyone away. Not being cocky enough will make you seem shy or boring. You want your cockiness to be somewhere in the middle. Just enough to make it seem like you are comfortable and sure of yourself yet not so far as to make it seem like you are arrogant or stuck up.

The same thing goes for being funny. You need to show that you have a good sense of humor and are playfull but you don't want to look like a clown or an attention whore.

The most important part of all of this is that you have to make whatever you do seem believable. It doesn't matter how cocky and funny you are if everything you do seems rehearsed. Girls are very intuitive and they will be able to tell if you aren't being yourself.

Unfortunately for most of us C&F isn't really who we are. But that's ok. You can change. You can make it who you are. Just keep practicing. If you are coming off like an arrogant ass then through trial and error figure out what you are saying that makes you seem that way. Over time you will get a feel for where the line between cocky and arrogant is and you will have enough control to not cross it.

[Guest]

I like to thow in some absurdities, and if she doesnt get that Im joking I bust on her for being super gullible.

Then I sell her my gulliblity cure for $20.

[Guest]

I think I'm pretty good at being cocky funny (everything else I think I still need a lot of work on).

I think one way of being cocky funny is to intentionally misinterpret what the girl says, to a point she obviously knows you're teasing. Misinterpret so that it sounds like you're so sure she's wrong and you're right, but that she knows you're being silly. If she responds well, usually it's a playful "oh shut up" with a smile or a poke in the ribs.

Another thing I do is when a girl touches me in any way like a tap on the shoulder to get my attention or bumps into me, I tell her "i didn't say you can touch me" with a smile. One time I teased girl so much she just placed her hand on my head (i was wearing a beanie) I just smiled at her and said, "I did not say you can touch me" and looked at her straight in the eye. she just continued to rock my head back and forth playfully to make me say "yes" while she was smiling.

I wonder if she likes me though. what do you guys think? it's a coworker of mine. :roll: