Online girl...first meet planned....suggestions

[Guest]

Met a girl online Saturday...er...Sunday AM after a night of drinking. My profile is set up as total asshole ala Style. HB "thinks" she's near a 10. During IM she sends me a pic where she's wearing a hat, and sitting on the floor with a dog in front of her. I IM'd her back and asked if she's the one wearing the hat or the one in front followed by "haha" and a smiley face. Then unsolicited, she sent me another pic with her in a skimpy outfit. I then asked her why she was wearing a hat, was her head pointy or something? I did not comment at all on her HB looks in the skimpy outfit. We fluffed IM some more and unsolicited, she sent me her phone number and said she wanted to talk. I called her and we talked some more. I don't remember what I said as I was pretty drunk. I do remember she wanted me to drive out to Rockwall to see her on Sunday...I live in S. Ft. Worth. I'm not driving that far to meet a chick I've only spoken to once!

Sunday night I saw her online and IM'd her. She gave me shit for not calling her during the day Sunday (I must've been a real smooth talker when I was drunk). I told her I was busy riding my bike through the countryside (I didn't tell her it was a bicycle!). Anyway....I asked her if she has ever experienced the cube. She said no. I explained after she did the cube, I'd know everything there is to know about her. She was immediately interested and wanted me to cube IM her. I told her it was better in person.

She began giving me shit again for not sending her a pic saying that I must be fat and bald (she did this before when she first sent her pics. At the time I blew it off by saying...."yeah, that's cute".) Today, I asked her to give me three reasons as to why I should. She changed the subject after coming up with one.

Honestly, I don't have a pic to send.

I called HB on the way home from work today and set up a meeting at SOuthern Junction this weekend so she can find out about the cube. This has really intrigued her. She asked if she could bring her roommate along to make sure I'm not strange, weird, serial killer, rapist, etc....(I have no idea what the roommate chick is like). Then, after we eat and have a few drinks, dance..whatever....she wants to go hang at a place called "Weekends" on Lake Ray Hubbard. I asked her "How do I know you're not a serial killer or weird?" Apparrantly she's a regular and knows a lot of people at "Weekends". I've never been there and don't know anybody.

HB is 31 and I'm 38. HB seems a bit immature.

How would you handle this situation Saturday? I'll be by myself and not know any of her friends at this "Weekends" place. I'll be the one out of the comfort zone here. Suggestions on how to deal with this situation?

Thanks,
JB

PS: At least if she flakes I'll be at a bar where I can sarge other chicks.

[Guest]

I would have a second and third spot picked out, by the time you hit "Weekends" you should have already gained attraction, and had her qualify herself, and so on. It shouldnt be all that hard to ditch the friend if you guys keep changing venues (Just say something like lets spend some alone time or something, after she qualifies of course). Have 1 drink at "Weekends" then tell her you have something else to show her and that she has to come with you. Then take her to your place(s) that you already have picked out. Voila.

[Guest]

I'm not familiar enough with the area to know any other spots. I've been to Southern Junction once or twice about 8 or 9 years ago and don't exactly remember where that is...but I'll find out. What are some other spots in Rockwall besides Southern Junction and Weekends?

[Guest]

I have no clue since I have never been to Rockwall.

But thats how I'd do it haha.

[Guest]

You MUST CHARM her friend first (like Will Smith said in "Hitch"). If it's going to be the three of you, you may not be able to isolate unless you bring a wing and he'd better know what he's doing.

To find out the best place to go, get there a few hours early, go to a near by Hooters and ask one of the hired guns where the ?hot spots? are around there.

[Guest]

[quote="Scoundrel"] If it's going to be the three of you, you may not be able to isolate unless you bring a wing and he'd better know what he's doing.[/quote]

Any volunteers?

Thanks,
JB

[Guest]

This actually sounds like fun. I'll pm you.

[Guest]

see field report.