ninjamatt wrote:A high % do care like bull run said, but some are skinny at 24 and by 28 they are thick or obese for various reasons and don't care b/c they think they are still hot b/c guys still hit on them. They like food and laziness, and don't have the drive or discipline to lose weight. Most think, "I'll start losing weight tomorrow but not today" and live in that mind frame almost all their lives but still fall in to BR's theory. Women's weight's are a real taboo subject so it comes down to both your goals and philosophies. Staying in shape is not easy for most people.
All true man. I'm a huge believer that men, through their attention or lack thereof, allow women to behave the way that they do. So, if men shower women with attention when they act like sluts, guess what? Women will be slutty. If men shower women with attention even when they're overweight, then women will be fat. Simple as that. Women are getting fatter and fatter today (so is the general population, but it's especially prevelant with women).
I for one believe that there must be consequences. The cost of a woman being fat should be that she is alone and doesn't get to experience love. This is the price that socially awkward, low value men pay...so, why don't women pay the same price?
As cruel as it is, I've routinely turned fat women down when they hit on me (via the Internet, in person, at bars, etc.) and tell them straight up that I'm not into fat women. I find it to be a personal afront that some fat chick can roll up to me and think that I would ever go for her. So, I react the way any one would react when they're greatly offended. I'm sure I've made a few cry, I know I've made a lot mad...but, so be it. If even ONE of them gets a fire under their tubby ass to lose some lbs then I've done mankind a service. AND, I cannot be blamed for being one of those men that allow women to behave poorly.
Women hold men to high social standards. Men must hold women to high behavioral standards as well. As a group, men have failed miserably at holding women accountable, this is why so few women are even tolerable to be around for any extended period of time.
But, back to the fat thing. The best ways to tell if a woman will remain thin for as long as she can are two fold 1) was she fat once and decided to lose weight? If so, she'll fight to never return to that lifestyle again because she knows how fucking miserable it is. 2) does she lift weights when she's at the gym? Most women run or do cardio or go to classes. All of that is useless for remaining fit for a long time. Women need to add muscle mass. They'll boost their metabolism and will be more firm and tight. The hottest women in the gym are always lifting weights. I'll fuck a chick that doesn't sling some iron but I'll never love one long term.
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