Most guys I meet don't understand how powerful the pivot can be. First a quick definition:
piv-ot
n.
A person or thing on which something depends or turns; the central or crucial factor.
Women have a dilemma. In the modern bar scene they need to judge a man’s value based on more than looks and what he says. Either of those two factors can be far too easily faked. In the case of looks it has also been scientifically shown that women are attracted to different physical characteristics dependant on whether they are ovulating. Off topic I know but if any of you are in LTRs or intend to be read this post by Kwag on mASF. Shit read it even if you are not - it's so money.
http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion ... D=2#366150
I have heard way too many times the phrase “I couldn’t get her so I’ll make her a pivot”. NO. If you are in the friend zone she will make a lousy pivot. You want her to be into you or at least not ruled you out. Also pivots are not exclusively women anyway. You will be judged by your friends, even if you just made them 10 minutes earlier.
So how DO you pivot correctly? It takes practice but what you are ideally looking for is to become associated with a social group that includes women which other women consider to be equal or preferably higher value than themselves. The social dynamics of each individual group interaction are complicated but generally speaking you start from the best available group to you at that time and work your way sideways or down. Women are very threatened by certain other kinds of girls. The venue you are in always attracts a certain clientele. Learn to spot which types of girls make good pivots in which types of places and use them.
Once you get a lot of day2s and FBs you can incorporate those as you pivots too but understand this. No woman will ever fuck a guy who is seen to be interested in banging a woman of perceived lower value. As you pivot your way up the chain (can be done very fast – within an evening) you will gain access to higher and higher levels of chicks. It’s one of the easiest ways I have found to get there so at least have it in the bag of tricks. The best PUA I have ever sarged with used awesome dynamic pivoting constantly.