Push Pull or IOI/IOD pairs Revisited

[Tribulus1000]

I'm working on the Push Pull (IOI-IOD) pairs stuff again. *Sigh*. I was in Austin this weekend and was negging girls.
It was like clubbing a baby seals. They would immediately turn their backs or leave.

One girl had on a black and white zebra striped outfit. And in walks this bachelor party with a guy wearing a green sequine vest that made him look like Peter Pan.

So I tell her:"I thought you had the best outfit here...until I saw him..." She was offended and walked away. WTF! To me this is really a weak neg.

Women in Dallas are not as sesitive to this.

I dunno. Perhaps I wasn't using "throw and go" enough or I didn't follow it up with "I love you."

I dropped it for a few hours and just vibed with my normal persona and that seemed to work fine.

I thought about doing an IOD... then talking about something else...then doing an IOI. Its a sort of slow calibration.

For example:

"You and I are incompatible." "We're not matched along 39 levels of compatiblity and that just spells disaster...." (IOD)(weak neg)

So what do you do? (Middle part)

"...That's so cool. I'm starting to like you" (IOI)

Being a coquette does not come natural to me AT ALL. But I feel this is something where I could make some improvements.

Any comments are welcome and appreciated. I'd like to hear what you guys do and what the solutions might be to the above.

Thanks.

T

[Scoundrel]

I have had little luck using negs. It's my feeling that they are unnecessary. If you are a high value man you have no need to lower your target's value, which are what negs are supposed to do, make her feel selfconscious. But, push/pull is different. You are pulling her in by giving her a complement, but pushing her away by telling her you think this aspect of her is unattractive. Here are a few examples I have used in the field:

"Wow, you are pretty smart! Too bad you're not my type."

"I'm starting to feel attracted to you... Maybe you should stand on the other side of the room."

"I could really go for a girl like you... If you weren't so young."

You can also turn it around by using the push first Like this:

"My mother warned me about girls like you... But, I didn't lessen to her."

"You have a sick mind... But, I like it!"

You are such a bad girl... I've always had a thing for bad girls."

But, you have to be careful. Anything you tell her you like she will do more of. You may not want to tell her you like her playing hard to get or her being so feisty.

[Tribulus1000]

I'm back to putting together routine stacks with smaller routines to put in between.

Also I'm gonna do what I call Kino Drills with this.

I want to get to where I can sorta "Imrov" the lines and come up with semi-spontaneous teases.
Ex: "Are you looking at my package?" "Is she always like this?"