Persistence vs. Keeping your power

[Tribulus1000]

Hey guys,
Tribulus here. Just thinking over what I've done in the past and some of the dumb advice given to us by the gurus.

I don't know if everyone has run into this situation in the past but I'm gonna shed some light on it and provide what I feel is an answer.

Here goes, hypothetical situation...

You meet a cute girl in a bar. She's with her friends.

You befriend a few of them and you're all having fun. The girl keeps flirting with you so its "on".

Then her friends decide its time to leave. They want to go to another bar and she asks you to come along.

What do you do?

A. Follow along behind them like a dog? Or B. Do you get her number and stay in the bar and continue hitting on the other girls there.

I believe most of us would choose B.

Why? Because we've been told to not give away our power and always maintain a frame of dominance and self-worth.

Those things are great but I gotta break with the infinite wisdom of the gurus.

By not giving away your power, you give up something even greater, a real opportunity for a relationship with a girl who likes you and probably would have sex with you.

Going for what you want, in the moment and taking every opportunity presented to you. That is the way.

Even if this is the wrong situation and I end up looking like a horny dog, what the hell do I care?

I'm not interested in protecting my own ego. And if my "power" is based on not following women then my "power" is really weak.

So the next time you encounter a situation where you have a chance to take an opportunity or protect your ego, I hope you'll just take the opportunity. Cowboy up.

That's my opinion and it doesn't cost $3000.00.

Thoughts?

[Dr. Mike, Sex Therapist]

Good post.

Jeffy spoke in Atlanta about the time a girl he knew who liked him left the bar with another guy to go to a second bar. She told Jeffy to follow but he was going through the same dilemma you are describing above. He said he was crying, walking home buy himself when a vision of his buddy Tyler Durden appeared to him. (lol! I swear he told us this, I'm not making this up.)

He said the vision of Tyler told him to go to the second bar, and take the girl away from the chode....and that's exactly what he did. He pumped her state, kept a strong frame and stayed persistent and she went home with him.

I've dated a lot of strippers who I'll meet out at a nightclub. They will have 20 guys buy them drinks. They are professionals at juicing guys. They will sit at a VIP table and I’ll barely speak to them the whole night because I’m somewhere else doing my thing. But I know at the end of the night I’ll step up take them by the hand and leave with them. The whole display is just a shit test to see how reactive you are.

Once a girl gets to a certain level of drunkenness you have to turn parts of the game off. Particularly the roll offs. Besides, she is so drunk that she probably won’t remember how you were acting from one minute to the next anyway. It’s like end of an NBA game; whoever has the ball last wins!

At one point while I was living in Austin, I would sleep till 12:30 and not get to the club till 1:30. I would approach a girl some guy had been buying drinks for all night, a few DHV spikes, some false disqualifiers/negs and the next thing I know she’s in my car headed to IHOP.

Also, just about every stripper I’ve pulled from a strip club has been within 1 and a half hours from closing time. If you pump her state at 9pm but the club closes at 2am then it doesn’t mean much.

I think to your point; it’s not just that you be persistent and follow her to the next club. The most important thing is that when it’s 2AM and the bar is closing you are the one there to extract her. When the lights come on in the bar a light should go off in your head that it’s time to pull.

[Dax]

nice post...going against the grain is DEF a necessity at times.

oh yeah...where do I mail the 3k? ...lol