finally getting over my sticking points

[Murad]

You might have read my previous blog about how I tended to eject myself out of the set early even if I got positive reactions. Well finaly after months of working on this, I am getting results. 90 percent of my sets are much longer now. On average about 20 to 30 minutes long. Some of them are still short and some of them are longer. The long ones tend to last about 40 minutes. So yeah now I can have some real fun out there......

[Vector]

That's good, congrats on your progress.

One thing I would suggest is to measure your success in terms of what stages you get to, whether you can get to showing interest, whether you establish any comfort, whether you can isolate, etc..

It really feels good to be making progress!

[DateDemon]

40 minutes seems like a long time lol. From running sets you know how much can happen quickly. If you can last 40 minutes you must have some really good conversation skills but I don't see why you would want them to last so long... ?

[Murad]

why would I want them to last that long?Well it all has to do with passion man. I love meeting new people and I like getting to know them(both men and women). Thats probably one of main reasons( if not the main reason) I am in the game.

[Tribulus1000]

I stayed at running the 30 minute set for waaay too long. It was cool to not bail, to feel like I was accepted by girls and to get into cool topics.

However, the thing I realized was that she can talk about things like that with all her girlfriends or family or coworkers.

I must have something unique and different to offer her than other women. There must be something about me that she's looking for.
Something that sets her off and gets her going...

Well in the last few times I've been out, I kinda stumbled on it.

Its sexuality.

So any way you can show sexuality is good. Be playful. Run Strawberry
Fields. Smack her on the ass. Kiss her. Tell her you want to fuck her but there's all these people around.

The community is way too nonsexual. Its metro gay.

Captain Jack used to tell me to "be more dominant" and I always wondered what he meant. Now I understand.

Good luck.

Tribulus