How many of your natural friends are good looking?

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Postby Professor » Sun Mar 09, 2008 11:14 am

My take on the whole thing is this. I've pretty much agreed on everything said so far. A natural I think, like Lion said, is someone who either looks good and knows it, which is why they act the way they do around women and are able to comfortably talk to and seduce a woman. Or, these are men that have a lot of experience with being in the company of women and therefore have built good conversation, escalation, and seduction skills with them. It comes down to practice. You do anything long enough and you will get good at it. It just becomes a routine.

I don't know if I would classify myself as a "natural". I think moreso yes than no, but I think I am just more of a social butterfly and have pretty good conversation skills and a good sense of humor. I will tell you now that a sense of humor/whittyness will get you a LONG way with the ladies. Just like Lion said about taking an average guy and dressing him nicely and having him exude a confidence about him will get him better success... The same applies to a man that can make a girl smile and laugh. That shit goes along way. How many times have you heard or seen written that she wants a man that can make her laugh. I've seen it a lot. Mix that with the confidence and the image of a man that knows what he wants and will take initiative to go out and get it and you have a bad mother fucker...
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Postby Slick85 » Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:35 pm

Professor wrote:My take on the whole thing is this. I've pretty much agreed on everything said so far. A natural I think, like Lion said, is someone who either looks good and knows it, which is why they act the way they do around women and are able to comfortably talk to and seduce a woman. Or, these are men that have a lot of experience with being in the company of women and therefore have built good conversation, escalation, and seduction skills with them. It comes down to practice. You do anything long enough and you will get good at it. It just becomes a routine.

I don't know if I would classify myself as a "natural". I think moreso yes than no, but I think I am just more of a social butterfly and have pretty good conversation skills and a good sense of humor. I will tell you now that a sense of humor/whittyness will get you a LONG way with the ladies. Just like Lion said about taking an average guy and dressing him nicely and having him exude a confidence about him will get him better success... The same applies to a man that can make a girl smile and laugh. That shit goes along way. How many times have you heard or seen written that she wants a man that can make her laugh. I've seen it a lot. Mix that with the confidence and the image of a man that knows what he wants and will take initiative to go out and get it and you have a bad mother fucker...


that image is ME... haha, im not that good yet but will be fairly soon, or so we will see... im starting to have more success with women recently... anyway I do agree that being good looking does not make you a natural, i know a good amount of good looking guys that have AVERAGE LOOKING girls chasing them but can hardly run game on a girl they dont know or dont have the balls to talk to a hot girl, while I know many guys who are 6s and 7s who have game and pull pussy a lot.... however i dont know many guys who are below 4 that can pull a lot of girls, unless they are uber rich...
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Postby Session » Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:01 pm

I think attractive guys naturally have faired better with women and therefore their confidence goes up over time. Confidence + Good looks is generally a solid solution to getting girls so I mean, why wouldn't good looking guys be naturals?

It's average looking guys who are naturals that I find interesting. Can't think of any that I know right now.
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Postby Slick85 » Thu Mar 13, 2008 2:44 am

Session wrote:I think attractive guys naturally have faired better with women and therefore their confidence goes up over time. Confidence + Good looks is generally a solid solution to getting girls so I mean, why wouldn't good looking guys be naturals?

It's average looking guys who are naturals that I find interesting. Can't think of any that I know right now.


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