College Sarging

[aznfantastic]

I am a college student, still in the beginning phase of transforming myself from AFC to PUA. I am not completely anti-social, it's just that the friends i used to hang out with are not party goers. Now i often run into some troubles when sarging at college parties.

1. The music is always loud, it's so hard to actually start a conversation. what is the best way to approach a set?

2. How do you keep the girl entertained and engaged ( basically, how to generate more sexual attraction) once you get them to dance with you?

3. Do you guys think race plays a big factor? (I am azn by the way)

I would really appreciate some honesty feedbacks, thanks a lot guys!

[zine]

hey me too man. I love to go to parties I wasn't even invited to and take all the chicks.

1. not really haven't you ever been to a club? Most parties are much quieter and have much better isolation spots then clubs. Also you are instantly at least somewhat cool since you were invited.

2. don't usually dance at parties, but can be effective. The best way? Be the interesting and engaging person I'm sure you are. Best way I've found to approach girls at parties is "hey you guys are where the party is at, (follow up with watever)" or "hi, I'm (your name or funny name like superman or something) and you are? (normal rapport stuff or how you know the host?)" parties are as easy as starting up a conversation with any stranger, but if that's your problem maybe you should be practicing on talking to everyone instead of just chicks.

3. not unless you a black dude at a kkk party or something.

[Smirks]

the e-slang "azn" makes me smirk...no idea why.

[MagicBalls]

Im MxnZ w/ a dash of Italianz.

[dubya]

3. Do you guys think race plays a big factor? (I am azn by the way)

IMO only with girls who have an "Exotic Fetish" as Robert Green describes it. I know white chicks who only date black guys vise versa... whatever. But I think this is an extreme. With most girls it will not matter what your race is. If the a girl is attracted to you it doesn't matter.

It doesn't even matter if her uncle Joe is a "Grand Wizard" and voted three times for David Duke in the same election. (Although if thats the case then you continue at your own risk).

3. not unless you a black dude at a kkk party or something.

God damn... lol. As I was saying... this is the opposite extreme of the Exotic Fetish.
If the girl is racist then of course it matters. You can't get anywhere with that... and really, why would you want to?

But then too and again... if the only reason a girl is into you is because she has yellow fever, why would you want that either?

Whatever...
But no, for 90% of the girls out there it shouldn't be important.

[Slick85]

not true, i know some girls that wont date guys of certain races but arent racist, they just arent as attracted... now if you had enough game and invested enough time im sure you could get through that, but why not go for the girls who are more likely to give you a chance?

[aznfantastic]

how do u know which girl would give you a chance at a club or a bar?

[zine]

you assume they will until proven otherwise. It's not them giving you a chance. It's you giving them a chance to be part of your amazing life. Don't place them on the pedastal like that you are equal to them.

[lawdawg505]

I am also in college, in my opinion there is no better place to learn PU. About parties...depending on how big they are, they can be great places for social proof. You probably will know a few people there already/see people from class/see people that you recognize from campus. HBs will notice you more and you're DHV will sky rocket.

About the loud music, either embrace it and dance with HBs with mad kino or if the HBs are into you, they will bounce so you can talk without the music. Its all about adapting to your surroundings and using it to your advantage.

As far as race is concerned, if girls are going to have preferences on race, don't worry about it. Some will, but most won't even let race phase them. Thats my opinion at least.

Good luck dude!

[Session]

1. Music is not always loud

2. Being engaging is the only thing you need to be. Easier said than done right? I've run mixed set with a bit of proof and had an HB9 eating out of my hand .

3. "Love is blind"
"Attraction is not a choice"