one-itis

[Love]

Why is it always the case that with something we don't want, as soon as we CAN'T have it anymore, that's all we can fucking think about? Or at least that's the case with me.

There was this girl who I was hooking up with while, call her HB stacey, I was seeing other people, and I never really thought that much of her. Come to find out now that she has a new boyfriend. FUCK FUCK FUCK!!! She was seeing us both at the same time. I wouldn't commit, and he would, and now i'm in the cold. Well, I feel so fucking snubbed!

Is there any way to make this feeling go away? I HATE that this is a vulnerability of mine, always fucking falling for girls, and always PINING over the ones that ditch me while I ignore the ones that want me even if they're hotter.

I hate life right now!!!! FUCK!!! Somebody fucking shoot me, seriously!

[PicturePerfect]

Think of your vulnerability as a hole in a piece of land that you own. Anyone can just fill it for you and make your land look perfect again, but perhaps since they now have that control of making your land look perfect as it should look, they also have the power to make it shitty again. This is always a good reason to put a fence around your land not a moat.

I've struggled with one-itis countless times its fuckin blows donk. I have since then changed my process internally prior to engaging a woman after to just some small talk etc. (Suppose little around Day2 shit if you will.)

PicturePerfects Summary.

Make sure your land is perfect, Picture Perfect at that. To your liking an no one elses. Once you have found this to be. You will find your self less idolizing something you cannot have. You will also find more people idolizing you.

- PicturePerfect

If a picture paints a thousand words. Then why can't I paint you?

[Bull Run]

PP is right and he talks a lot about Inner Game. That's exactly what this is. You control your happiness, don't rely on another to make you feel complete.

There will always be another HB Stacey, but you're the only you you have (that was a lot of you's). I believe that there isn't The One, instead there's the current one, next one, or last one...never just The One.

She was the last one, now go out and find the next one...and when you're fucking her give her a thurst from me

If a picture paints a thousand words. Then why can't I paint you?

I can paint your face white.

[Alphagame]

I think it boils down to this: we only want what we can't have.

Just out of curiosity, how long did you see this girl???

Also, remember, as much as you want her back, exclusive relationships get boring fast. She'll get bored with this beta male she chose and end up cheating on him or dumping him. It may be months from now or it could be after they've been married for several years. You never know. Maybe she won't cheat. You just never know.

There's nothing more exciting in life than the thrill of the chase. The game rocks. The faithful, married guys are checked out on life as far as I'm concerned.

She'll always be thinking of you as the guy she really wanted but couldn't get. Meanwhile, the guy who got her is in for some serious boredom, eventually. It's unavoidable with an exclusive relationship. The passion only lasts so long. In the long run, you should realize you are fortunate it isn't you.

Attraction comes and it goes. It's not a choice. When it comes, it comes. Take advantage of it while you can. When it goes, accept it and move on.

Oh, and for what it's worth, I haven't had one-itis since last October. Keep sarging, keep making approaches and keep the harem full with as many whores as you can. I've been doing this for a short while and it seems to be working out ok. But then again, I haven't had a woman leave me for another man, either. Are you SURE there's another guy? She could be manufacturing this guy to make you jealous. One of my current girlfriends recently tried this, I showed no signs of jealousy, in fact, I encouraged her to go fuck this other guy and at the end of the day I realized there was no other guy. She was trying to get me all to herself by making me jealous.

[Dragon]

Hey Love,

Hang in there.

You just want something you can't have.
Simple Supply and Demand theory, you (demand) want something only when it is in short or no supply.

And that is what you were suppose to do to her, not her doing it to you.
If you were seeing other girls, you probably were not that crazy about her or that much in love with her.

Don't be needy and play it cool.. she might come back.

[playercool]

It sucks you feel this way over some FB. I can't even imagine your pain if this was some girl you actually liked.

Fill your harem up so this thought never crosses your mind again. One girl leaves and is replaced by another. It helps if you are the one choosing who is replaced. Keep in mind FB's are not going to stay around forever. They will eventually meet a guy who wants to seriously date them. You should want this for them as well. If you are not willing to settle down with them be happy that someone else comes along for them.

Goodluck