6th field report, jan 09

[coolguy]

OK,
I did not want to go out tonight. The reason being, I just didn't feel like it. However, I got text from smiley, reminding me to meet up at 5 degrees. I decided to suck it up and go (which was a good thing I did). So I met the guys at the club. Ivan, Smiley (shawn), Mr.p. Sorry, I do not remember the girls name (the ones we guys hang out with), except Melissa, but even then I do not know to whom does it belongs to, lol. Well next time, I would ask one of the guys on the side to tell me the names, so girls don't get pissed.

My goal tonight was:
1) Practice new opener I came up with
2) Get 5 rejections, by getting out of my comfort zone.

Ivan told me he likes the guy who has enthusiasm, and willing to go out of his comfort zone, and try his damnest Ivan is definitely a cool guy. We also talked about players vs natural and how it is all basically body language. We both agree, in the end it is we who gets more number in the club. Maybe be it is also so sad, I realized later, that all those chodes in the clubs looking all tough, trying to be like naturals. It is fools errand, girls know it immediately and they ain't fooling no one. So they all just stand around in the club and girls get picked by naturals and now the pickup artists. Of course I like chords, I say more the better, for it is truly they who make us PUA look very interesting and guys worth having.

I digress, so when I was talking to Smiley, he told me there are two girls sitting on the sofa, go go go. Don't think and open them. So I left him and immediately zoomed on them. I open them using non-canned opener, and stuff. I was hoping smiley would come in but he didn't. Conversation died within a minute and since I did not have attraction for any of them, I bailed out. The club was full of HB7 and above. There was no reason for me to hang out and waste time with them.

So I came back to the group and told them, tonight I wanna see how do they do it. Their body language, style, etc. The way the guys wing in or open, etc.

I came up with my own opener, I wanted to test b4 running it, Ivan heard it and say its cool, lets field test the sob. We saw these two hot babes, blond and brunette (both Hb8's). So I opened them up. Then Ivan wing me in.

PUA: So girls, quick feedback, do you like Sexy Hot guy or Cute guy?
HBs: Sexy Hot guy, but personality is more important
PUA: but what if sexy hot guy is only 5'2 and cute guys is 6'2?
HBs: Doesn't matter, to us personality count...blah blah

then Ivan winged me in...
Ivan: Hey girls, are you taking care of my man here...
HB's: oh yea...we are nice..blah blah

Then Ivan blocked the blond and started talking to her. I do not remember her name, gotta ask him.
SO here is my conversation with brunette
PUA: so what are you doing in the club, don't tell me your picking up guys, you naughty girl!
HB8: No No..I got a BF (damn, not experience enough to do bf destroyer)...blah blah
PUA: so you got pets...let me guess, you got a damn cat!
HB8: oh my god, how do you know? (should have ran the esp routine, forget)
PUA: reason I asked (ran the gay cat routine)
HB8: giggling
PUA: I like your smile, look at you, you giggle like looney toones!
HB8: giggled and laughed more
PUA: If I wasn't gay(eye fucking her)...I would soooo hit on you, take you on the so far in the back and make out like crazy with you!
HB8: Noooo, you don't look like gay!!!
PUA: Really, when I was young and we had those party lines, we got on those party lines..u know what I am talking about?
HB8: Oh My God.....I did the same thing!
PUA: yea? well guess what, there used to be guys on the girls side offering us money. And how this guy offered us 3do, playstation, etc etc
HB8: (laughing) your soooo funny!
PUA: Yea..don't forget cute too!
HB8: laughed more
PUA: so are you wild, how old were ya when you had your first kiss?
HB8: 14
PUA: damn man, I had it when I was in pre-school(ran when I was a player since birth routine)
HB8: (laughing)..I gotta get a drink...

She went out to drink, but didn't come back, instead she started hanging around with her friend who Ivan had isolated slowly, and was at the bar. I dunno what it means, does it mean, I wasn't hooking her? I dunno
Well I came to them instead and saw Ivan getting the blonde's number. I would be racing on feb 2, so I invited them and got the brunette's number. I dunno if that count as number close!

After that, Ivan and me went and open couple more set. One set had these three girls(hb4,6.5,6), I opened them up. Ivan came and ran the same opening routine like b4(are you taking care of my man here), then ran the your naughty, party, and nice girl routine on them. He blocked the one on the right , even though his target was in the middle. However, it seemed like HB4 was more interested in me. But I just couldn't eye fuck or body language like I did brunette b4. Ivan got the number of HB6 he was talking to. IN fact, her friends tried to pull her, but she ditch them for him! Now thats what I am talking about, the game.

Well then there was another set (HB6.5 and HB 7.5), blondes. I stopped them and ran the hot and sexy guy routine I came up with:
PUA: SO girl quick opinion, do you like Sexy Cute guy, or a Hot guy?
girls: we like gangster and thug like. Like from the hood!
PUA: (start sweating like anime but remained in the game) Oh really, so you like Denzel washington?
HB's:NO......We like real gangster style
PUA: What about JZ...
HB's nope, more like 50 cents
PUA: ran the thug vs gangster loving
HB's: we like thug and we like gangster, blah blah.....
PUA: ok...nice talking to you (exited the set since getting no Vibe)

Talked to Ivan, he thought if I had a problem with them loving gangster style, I said nope, but I just don't understand that how come they don't like JayZ. There is nothing I could have done unless my game was really really tight.

So we split and then with Mr.p I opened couple more sets. I opened one with two blonde girls (both Hb7.5).

PUA: Hey girls, do you like Sexy Cute guy or Hot guy?
HB's: Sexy cute guy (interesting, girls tend to pick wherever I put the word sexy, doesn't matter if he is hot or cute)
HB (in red): I like rich guys!
PUA: well so you like who is like 70, 5'2, balding too, and love kissing is public too?
HB (in red): yup...
Then Mr.p jupmed in so I started running game on the other blond.

PUA: (ran the when I was a player routine)
HB: didn't laugh or anything
HB: I am arabic, I like Arab guys, do you know Arabic?(she was kinda drunk)
PUA: no, do you know Arabic? (damn...I told ya all in yesterday I wish I knew some slangs in Arabic to run it on some hot Arabian chic. She turned out to be blond and blue eye Arab...without an accent, maybe mix???).
PUA: Thats cool...tell me something in Arabic
HB: blah blah (this time she thought me I love You in arabic and I asked this Arab guy later in club, he said she was right. Now I don't remember it!!!)

Well I think she wanted to just get rid of me, so I ejected. Later Mr.p came and told me how the other one also said she prefers rich guys and he ejected also. I was gonna pretend like I am Arabic, that is why I asked her b4 hand if she knew Arabic. If she hadn't well.....

I came talked to the guys and saw another 3 set, with tall blond. I opened them up using the same opener (I know no one used it since I invented it). On the other hand, maybe they opened me, I don't remember, but I did ran that line. The blond, she was like 5'10 (HB7, other 2 were like HB4 and 5). She actually put her hand around me and said she likes guys like my height( I am 5'8). I dunno if she was playing around or mean it? My experience, girls only like taller guys....
Well Mr.P came in and blocked the blond, lol. He had no idea who was my target. (I had none, but decided she should be one cause she kino my ass).
Well I ran the game on HB5(body like hb7 but face like hb4) and hb4. After opening my game didn't go anywhere. I ran when I was a player and gay cat routine, but no luck, they didn't even giggle. Well I know these stories and routine are gold, they work. So if girls don't laugh, I think I should eject out of the set? What do you guys think??

Well Mr.P didn't get the blond number or anything either. We just ejected the set. It was like 12:45 and I decided to split. Saw one probable set on my way out and should have ran the game, but just decided to go...damn!

Well even though my night was ok, got one number (damn if only she was single, but she was one of the best looking girl in the club), I still failed my goal of getting 5 rejections. (Like rejected during the opening). I only got two rejections. One was the set with Arabic chic (well she was hanging around with the girl who wants rich guys, so I dunno what to say about her either), and the other who like thugs (need real tight game for the future). Since my attraction and comfort game is not that tight, unless I got rejected during opening the set, I do not count it.

Also, smiley opened a set of like 6-7 girls(I say its the award goes to smiley for that). He said if it was a birthday party or something(you need to tell us the detail smiley). And he stayed there like 15 minutes! I should have been there. Damn smiley, next time let me know if your gonna do that!

Lessons:
1) I forget about body language and eye fucking after opening, need to keep that up
2) need to now start transitioning into attraction and comfort material. Need to prepare one which last at least 10 minutes
3) Need more bold moves to get more rejections.
4) Girls tend to pick choices with word "Sexy" in it, good for NLP programming in future.

Questions:
1) So if girls are not hooking up in your true and tested DHV stories and stuff, eject or not to eject?
2) The Hb8 brunette I opened early in night, when she did not come back, even though she was laughing and all, was she hooked or not? Even though I number closed her.......

Progress:
Approaches: 6
Blowout: 2
Number Close: 1

Progress Since Jan 1, 2007
Approaches: 33
Blowout: 4
Number close: 2 (both worthless, since 1 got bf and other turned flaky)

It may take me month or two b4 kiss close, or more, I dunno

[Smirks]

you sir are a machine. I wish I had the time to go out as much as you and hammer through this! Good job man.

[cruxnexus]

Questions:
1) So if girls are not hooking up in your true and tested DHV stories and stuff, eject or not to eject?
2) The Hb8 brunette I opened early in night, when she did not come back, even though she was laughing and all, was she hooked or not? Even though I number closed her.......

To answer your first question I think you should never eject yourself from a set unless you closed, tried to close them but failed, or get blown out. You should always go for the close no matter what. ...... Perhaps the girls were not responding to your DHV's, or perhaps they were. You keep in mind that each girl has their own special way of flirting. Some will give you IOI's and some will not and still be interested.

For example, some girls will IOI with their hair only, some only touching their neck, some nervously laughing, and last, the girl that gives no IOI's. That girl that appears unresponsive will not give IOI's, but will give you extreme eye contact and will never break it. That type of girl has a high social status, or does not know how to flirt.

To answer your second question, the brunette left maybe of external factors, or because you didn't escalate. From the conversation just making her laugh is an IOI, so you got attraction but it died out because you didn't escalate or go to rapport. My General system is, First IOI transition to qualification and role play, second IOI kino escalate, third IOI Close either number or kiss close.