Pursue the woman

[Finesse]

Guys, I know this community has almost been entirely swamped with talk that says you have to be alpha, and that you must always take the lead, and that you must be theMAN, and thats true.

But...

Not all the time.

Question, If you are playing a game with someone who, ALWAYS wins, no matter what you do. How does that make you feel?

Women like to be lead, but they ALSO LIKE TO LEAD, and you must let them.... sometimes.

I know that, to some, that sounds like castration, but serisously, think about it. Let her win sometimes, give her the whole, "Damn baby, you got it goin' on." Talk.

Let her know you want to do naughty things to her because the dress she's wearing is leaving nothing to your imagination and you can picture every undergarment she is wearing.

Of, course.... some women don't like that kind of talk in which case, I am not with that type of woman. But let her KNOW that you find her sexy. Women NEED that.

It's an evolution thing though. The Dalorean in Back II the Furture didnt start excepting fruits and vegetables for fuel until later in the series, AFTER Doc realized how things happened in time travel and thus needed a different fuel source. A relationship with a women is much the same way. You game, build attraction, prove you are strong and can lead. But then you must show that you are willing to bring her into you life a little and let her hold the reigns a little. I know the Back II the Future metaphor is loosely based and what im trying to convey but damnit I wanted to use a B2F reference.

This is mainly for relationship managment, but can be used in general pickup too.

[Westfall]

Push//Pull.

Too much pushing and you're an asshole. Too much Pulling and you're a friend or AFC.

WF