Finesse's Stylelife Challenge

[Vector]

Alright guys, Question for the Stylelife challenge.

Those that have heard me speak, would you say I have a:

Low or Soft Voice
Fast Speech
Brain Farts
Monotone Voice
or do I make statements that sound like questions?

Or any combination of the above.

Thanks.

Pillow Talk

WF, does he only use pillow talk with you after sex, or all the time? Or is that what you were trying to say?

Or do you mean he should use pillow talk?

Or what?

[TheScientist]

Alright guys, Question for the Stylelife challenge.

Those that have heard me speak, would you say I have a:

Low or Soft Voice
Fast Speech
Brain Farts
Monotone Voice
or do I make statements that sound like questions?

Or any combination of the above.

Thanks.

Volume isn't an issue for you. You project well and speak at a level that says you want and expect to be heard.

Your pace of speech could be slower. It seems to slow deliberately at times, so I think you're already aware of this. It speeds up when you get emotional (angry in particular) about the topic.

Your authority is clear. I don't hear ambiguity in your tonality, grammar, or language.

Your inflection and tonality is appropriately varied. You could work on this, but you're not monotone.

[El Fenix]

are you still doing this? I'm starting mine today.
I'm skipping the not shower for 2 days thing though. done that before. that wont help my game.

[Finesse]

Yes I am. I just havent had time to blog about it really.

[Finesse]

thanks for the feedback guys.

An update.

Day 4 - Style

Women 1 and 2: Express, Banana Republic, This was a 2 set at Idle Rich. Kept the conversation going until I ran out of stuff to switch into. I have found out that when I open with a canned opener I run out of material fast.... its like I have trouble segwaying into something else.

Woman 3: Express, This is all I asked, she was pretty pretentious and wasn't exactly the type of girl I'm into. She was attractive but all in all I just wussed out.

Woman 4: Nordstroms..... she couldnt narrow a specific style down, Same as the last girl, pretentious, extremely tall. Pretty un-responsive body language.



Day 5 - Grooming

I changed the way I shave. Instead of a goatee I have a "soul patch" .

I trimmed my eyebrows a bit.... I should prolly gettem waxed a little, and I bought a nose hair trimmer for the ol' sniffer.

Day 6 I havent done yet. I will do that tomorrow.

[Finesse]

I've noticed I get lazy. It's like I see the pathway in front of me during the sarge and I can either pursue it or abandon ship. I don't think its really lazy, I think its just I'm not challenged.

It's like, Ok If I know I can do this, if I just do this, this, this and this, that isn't enough. It's like I have to be up against something, or have like a motivation.

Anyone else experience this?

[Thaddeus]

I totally understand, most of them time when I dont approch or close its because its not convenient and I just hate putting out effort for any thing less than near perfection. I'll see a girl thats say a 7 per say accross the store from me shes cute and would probibly be interesting but I'd have to go over and invest 20 min in her and I just dont see at this point that shes worth it. I've been struggling with this for a while now and havent figured out a sure way to fix it.

I know what it takes to get better at it but dont always devote myself to it. I think thats an issue with a lot of the better guys out there, when there in the mood there great but other times they just dont care enough to perform. Been there done that attitude I guess...

[Westfall]

I've been feeling this a lot lately. I'm not motivated perhaps because such a few percentages of my sets results in something I want. I'm a little more motivated when I'm showing others what to do in the field, but beyond that, I don't really go sarging alone, although sometimes I end up in a set...

I need someone to push me//challenge me.

WF

[Bull Run]

I'm struggling with this as well. Sometimes I'm in set and I KNOW. I know that I'll be able to close my target, if you've closed enough times you begin to see it. At the risk of sounding like a nerd, it's kind of like The Matrix...you begin to see and read the code. Anyway, sometimes I won't even bother to close, sometimes it's just the knowledge that I find to be sufficient. It's not a matter of rejection or concern that I'm wrong, it's almost as if I see the whole thing flash in front of my eyes: close the girl (assuming its not an SNL), day 2, FC, then I've got this chick on my hands that I know I'll probably be getting rid of soon enough. Once I walk through the future with this chick, I find that it's just not worth fucking with. So, I simply eject.

[Thaddeus]

I've heard from a lot of the guys out there that are respected instructors or at the least well known on major forums that this is the problem that holds most guys back from greatness. An ideal mind set would have you in state most of your life and craving the human contact of the approch. But then sometimes you just dont feel like it today and then it seems to carry on to the next day. I'm still working on figureing out what to do to fix this, weve done mandatory weekly approch quotas. Now I'm considering an investment system, say if you and a wing go out and one of you doesnt approch a set you buy the other a drink or such. Same theory as when new pua's pay for material or help they accept the change faster because they have invested the money in it.