by Twitchy » Mon Dec 17, 2007 1:31 pm
There ARE women on this message board and at least one, a very attractive one at that, is very active.
I think it is great that there are women that want to know more about this community of guys trying to improve themselves. Whether they are involved for curiosity, for entertainment, for their own personal improvement or just so they learn the tactics guys talk about so they can avoid them, it is a good thing.
For most women however, I think it would be tough to have anything more than a cursory exposure simply for the fact that men are competitive and very goal driven so the posts often turn into how many girls has the PUA has slept with and how quickly can he can get one to bed vs. the self improvement aspect of the community. Its the video game mentality - score points to get to the next level.
However, any woman who has been involved for a while will hopefully realize the big picture of what the community is all about - we are a bunch of guys who were unsatisfied with our dating lives (maybe our lives in general) and are taking an active approach to improving ourselves.
Girls who hear just about the lines and openers may not have a positive outlook to this community because they might think these are subversive tactics to get them into bed. In reality, the openers, lines, etc. taught and passed around the community are just tools and crutches for the average man as he develops himself. They will not get the girl in and of themselves. They might generate initial attraction but long term, if you are not a confident guy who has his life together and has passions, any girl will quickly see through your facade. Most guys will too. I can easily spot "posers" out and about - Dallas is full of them.
I have been in the community about a year and a half now and don't even use canned openers anymore. The most complex thing I have done to open a girl in the past 4 - 6 months is smile at her and say hi. This works just as well as any opener does.
I wish there were more women involved. I wish they shared their perspectives more. I have always found it ironic that the community that we use to better develop our understanding of women is primarily made up of guys.....
Blue wrote:Smirks wrote:Start out with a bit of spanking...then work your way up.
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