A very AFC Valentines day

[Derek Blood]

We are friends but she tends to flake on plans a lot. BTW I'm currently training her for pivoting duty. [:D] And she's a virgin... with issues that I haven't gotten to the bottom of yet.

So I nearly beg this chick to go out with me valentines day, we had previous plans to drink a lot together but she tried to flake. So, I walk into her store (right next to mine) at the mall, and tell her that since she is ditching her other friends as well, we should go out together and I throw in that valentines day only comes around once a year. She agrees, and since I had the extra cash anyway, I decide to pay for the meal.

I decide that i will have a good time regardless of the outcome, plus it's been like six months since i did nice guy stuff for a girl. I had a great time and got to know her better etc...

So, start asking her leading questions about why she doesn't date, if she's afraid of relationships, etc... She tells me that she is fine being single, doesn't want to start anything right now, blah blah blah

We talk about our pasts, the fact that we both have single parents, past relationships, "normal" crapola...

She tells me with what I perceive to be honesty, that I'm a genuine fun guy to be with "not like those other meatheads"... i've run game on her before

More stuff that she wants to keep me as a friend, blah blah blah

"Date" ends, take her home what not


Damn it for some reason I genuinely like this girl too, i dont want her as a notch on my belt, i don't even want to have sex with her...at this point

i've tried to figure it out from all different angles, what is it about her... at least from what i can gather from my own musings, perhaps i like shy girls... perhaps i find it attractive that we were very similar at some point, it's like a mirror reflection of my old self, maybe i like virgins, i've been with 2

do i just need a higher score to beat this shit? seriously i'm at 3, 2 before game, 1 from learning game but not as a direct result

i've got to get down to the science of game, i dont practice at home, some of you do some of you dont,

i feel stuck in a rut right now, like i'm spinning my wheels but going nowhere, this is in all areas of my life as well

rant over

[Mojo]

Ah the one-itis. It's true about the one-itis cure... go out sarging other girls. It worked for me quite well.

I like your idea about training her as a pivot. Tell her you just want to go out as friends, use her as a pivot, flirt with other girls. Once she sees you loose interest in her and are receiving attention from her competition, well, get ready...