Dallas PUA

Everyone has experienced this. The one person they work with, that they cannot STAND! The one person, in which when you see you have to work with them you wish you would die, or better yet, they would. The one person in which if you were walking down a side walk and they were coming towards you, you would cross the street to avoid, OR shove them into traffic (if there were no witnesses of course).

Her voice is like nails on a chalkboard to me, I seriously think thats what is making my headaches persist. I want so badly to stick a sock in her mouth.

Talking non stop, high pitched squeeling.... persistant, INSANE questions, such as and I quote, "Have you parents ever told you, you were a mistake baby?" Which I can only assume, comes from her own personal experience of, in fact being told, that she was a mistake baby.

Why?

Why me?

Have you not done enough to me oh lord?

Maybe, he is getting me back for all my drunken days of womanizing.....

Maybe my supervisor hates me... I think that must be it.

I hate this job.

These are the people who test your skills. You want to be unaffected. You want to reframe everything in a positive way. But these people push your buttons.

I have the office dullard in the office next to me. He has a bad Texas accent, which isn't by itself too bad. But he mixes it in with his own annoying expressions.

"She sits there and says..." - How did you know she was sitting? You were talking to her on the phone. Why is the fact that she was sitting relelvant?

"I found a distinguishing difference..." - You found a difference... or a distintion... All differences are distinguishing, and all distinctions are different.

He talks about how his wife, who is built like a milk jug, has big breasts. Don't get me wrong, I like her. She has a cute personality. But she's not Pam Anderson.

He does everything on time and brags about it to call attention to when I'm late. He's an officious blowhard.

But I smile and validate him. I may not be pulling models, but I have really improved how I deal with people. This guy used to really bother me. Now I know how to reframe the situation and make every encounter a pleasant experience for everybody involved.

Thats the kicker..... she actually doesnt have a clue how annoying she is...... that is her personality. She doesnt do it on purpose, shes just stupid.

Finesse wrote:Thats the kicker..... she actually doesnt have a clue how annoying she is...... that is her personality. She doesnt do it on purpose, shes just stupid.

Can you reframe it so that you actually look forward to your encounters with her?

Probably, but I have fun tormenting her in spite.