Dallas PUA

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taking care of yourself is not a on-and-off thing. it's a continuous lifestyle.

for example if someone has to clean his room then he will clean it again in the future, just because hes a messy guy. but someone like myself, who never has to clean his room just because i dont leave things around.

same with life. things like work and study just gotta be taken care of the moment they come. if you have a pile of things to do, and even if you are able to do them all at once, guess what you will find yourself in the exact same situation in two month.

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Finesse wrote:I have flipped my entire life upside down, and believe it or not I used to have the details worked out. Now it's just a process I am having to re-initiate. It's a pain in the ass changing everything all at once.

This is how we become stronger. There are many people that never find the ambition to radically change their lifestyle to get the things they want, they avoid the short-term problems you may be experincing, but they also miss out on the long-term rewards you may later reap.

Stay strong, you'll find the balance.

WF

ahh you got a baby. now that's a whole different story lol.

Find your balance man... balance is everything in life. You've got some new things that tip the balance in the direction of chaos. So take your time and find it.

For me, I've got my son here visiting for a month, and I've only gone out twice in the last 2 weeks; that's fine. I'm a parent LONG before im a PUA.

When he goes back to Cali tho, I'll be instantly back to 3-4 nights a week.