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Bad day
Posted:
Fri Feb 20, 2009 5:34 pmby Guest
just figured out my ex and oneitis is in love with this new fag she is dating
and hes in love with her
ughhhhh
:/
what do you guys do in these situations?
help someone :(
Posted:
Fri Feb 20, 2009 5:38 pmby Guest
Sorry to hear this man. That really sucks.
That is never a good feeling to have since clearly you still have feelings for her.
My advice.
Do your best to move on. Don't look at any of her pictures. Don't go to her myspace or facebook page. Stop calling/texting her immediately.
It is a process that takes time. As time goes on you will have less and less feelings for her. It will start to get easier.
Get out there and meet some new girls. I guarantee having girls in your arsenal will help to alleviate your thoughts of her. I literally had to stay the night with girls to help ease my pain. I would do my best to never spend the night alone. It seemed to work wonders.
In case I didn't make myself clear: Go MEET Another Girl.
Posted:
Sat Feb 21, 2009 1:29 amby Guest
It takes 21 days to get past the first phase...just like an addiction
Posted:
Sat Feb 21, 2009 1:34 amby Guest
[quote1235197965=Appleman]
It takes 21 days to get past the first phase...just like an addiction
[/quote1235197965]
Like an addiction indeed.
Problem is, we broke up in August.
So yeah.
been a little more than 21 days.
I guess in an addiction POV this would be a relapse?
Idk.
Posted:
Sat Feb 21, 2009 4:31 amby Guest
[quote1235208279=Urban Legend]
[quote1235197965=Appleman]
It takes 21 days to get past the first phase...just like an addiction
[/quote1235197965]
Like an addiction indeed.
Problem is, we broke up in August.
So yeah.
been a little more than 21 days.
I guess in an addiction POV this would be a relapse?
Idk.
[/quote1235208279]
Take comfort in the fact that you still feel something...
If you truly love someone, it never goes away. You will always have a place for them in your heart...a chapter in the book of you. Understand this dynamic, embrace it, then move on...
Bull Run
[BTW if you're reading this, I loved your FAKE tits and your lack of TACT regarding the world at large [no pun intended]>...
Enjoy your rack, I hear the milk is suprisingly sweet ;)
Posted:
Sat Feb 21, 2009 6:37 amby Guest
[quote1235216199=Urban Legend]
just figured out my ex and oneitis is in love with this new fag she is dating
and hes in love with her
ughhhhh
:/
what do you guys do in these situations?
help someone :(
[/quote1235216199]
i go fuck a hotter girl, and shell be lucky if i don't introduce them
Posted:
Sat Feb 21, 2009 10:15 amby Guest
[quote1235229164=Finesse]
i go fuck a hotter girl, and shell be lucky if i don't introduce them
[/quote1235229164]
I would, but I am not that experienced enough to go out meet and SNL a girl.
But today when out day gaming with my homies I am going to turn the negativie memories of her into a drive to open 1000s of girls. Hope it works :D
Posted:
Sat Feb 21, 2009 10:27 amby Guest
That's the spirit! You need motivations!!
Good luck UL
Sooner or later, you will get over it.
Posted:
Sat Feb 21, 2009 2:54 pmby Guest
I can tell you been there on this one Bull run :)
Urban, you just gotta let go and try and find someone else that makes you feel the same. Over time it'll get better... how do you know she's dating someone else who's in love with her? Sounds like you are too close to the situation -- get away from it if you want to get over it. Good decision on using it as motivation -- breakups with people you really care about or love can be POWERFUL motivators for change.
Posted:
Sat Feb 21, 2009 4:56 pmby Guest
Agree with above guys, and had these same feelings recently when my ex was getting engaged. I thought Bull Run summed up eloquently, embrace that every relationship as part of the journey of life. Sometimes in the ride, you have to take a reverese to go in front.