Strip clubs??

[Guest]

yeah, I saw that other thread about strip clubs and it reminded me that I wanted to ask about them.

so...what's the point of them? why do people go to strip clubs? there's the obvious tits in the face part, but the few times that I've gone, it seems like everyone is just sitting and talking to the dancers. and it just makes me wonder: what the hell do you talk to a stripper about?? Do you talk really sexual to them? do you talk to them about your day and pretend you don't notice that they're sitting on your lap naked?

I don't feel like I want to game them because they're pretty much disqualified to me by showing off their goodies to every Harry, Jack, and Sam. Are the other guys trying to game the strippers? you'd think them pretty unattainable, right? I'm not really interested in most of them at all, but talking to them might help me to build conversation skills.

[Guest]

Your last sentence is the main reason I like them at the moment. What will desensitize you more to talking to a beautiful woman than talking to a beautiful woman with her tits in your face? I used to be just like my best friend in my strip club philosophy - AFC. He wants to go, get boobs in his face, and talk to them as little as possible. That used to be me I hated socializing with women I didn't know and felt awkward doing it especially at a strip club. Now it's what I look forward to -- I don't get dances or pay for boobs in my face. I'm getting ready to go to one right now for that matter. Another reason I like them is it's a good place to go before you're going out later that night to get in a social mood. By the time I leave the club tonight and head out I'll have talked to lots of pretty ladies and be in a social mood.

Gaming strippers can be fun. The one thing you have to realize if you're going to game them is most of them are super fucked up in the head so don't game them if you're looking for a LTR... only do so if you can handle a very casual relationship and realize she will probably fuck other dudes behind your back.

[Guest]

Another good place for practising would be Bone Daddy... Last time I was there this HB waitress asked if she could just sit at our tables and fold a box of napkins! And then she started talking to us asking questions etc... And now I think back about it, some were shit tests... As the conversation progressed she was pulling other waitresses to our table and introducing them to us. We were a couple of AFCs and nothing came out of it. But after I got involved in the community, I can now see the value of engaging them to improve conversational skills, framing, sexualization etc... Fuck, if you're really good, I 'd think you could pick them up too.

I'd be interested to know if anyone in the community has done that (picked up a "hired gun" in a local venue, that is...)

[Guest]

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I'd be interested to know if anyone in the community has done that (picked up a "hired gun" in a local venue, that is...)
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I prefer hired guns. It all boils down to taking them out of the work element. Interrupt their opening "HI I'm A DUMB WAITRESS, CAN I TAKE YOUR ORDER" speech...make them laugh, etc. If it's a place like Hooters, the game's a bit different ( you gotta do more of breaking yourself out of the typical staring-at-her-tits guy) to get her out of work mode. Be fun, be different than other tables. I've found waitresses are actually really easy to bounce from their work to something else the same night. Did it multiple times during business trips here and there...

[Guest]

i concur. if this question is picking up hired guns, yes i have, point not dick swangin but you need to break them out of their shell and give them comfort other than their own comfort which pertains of the perpetual tit viewing / fake conversation pickup lines (ie "these new shorts hurt"...really watch the southpark episode raisens episode to get a accurate view of how their game works) as wil all pickup change the norm and establish unique intrigue

[Guest]

Yup definitely always be aware at the strip clubs, hooters, etc that their schtick is to make you think they like you even if they don't. Usually if a hired gun is spending time with you they normally wouldn't and NOT making money off it that's your best IOI.

Tip your waitresses well at the strip club but don't give the strippers anything other than yo bad ass presence ;) Always be the opposite of what the average customer there is/does.

[Guest]

It is interesting to see this thread. I have not posted in a while do to "activities", but having just gone out with a waitress at bone daddy's, sherlocks, and a dancer at Jags, I have a different perspective. These hired guns have fun. What I mean by that is I met them outside of there work. The game is the same as any other. The DIFFERENCE, is the frame.

Switch roles. Putting myself in their frame of, "people are here for me. Well, the club, but I am what makes the club. You are not someone if you do not know me.. . . Wait there is a new face, lets meet them!"

When they are in this new situation, well, think about it...

[Guest]

im not a huge fan of stripclubs all that much. i love to see nude women, but the thought of having to pay for titties to be in my face, id rather watch porn and rub one out.

and as far as dating a stripper...well that would suck. shes probably all fucked up in the head and i would hate to have other guys be all over my girl...thats just not cool...

[Guest]

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and as far as dating a stripper...well that would suck. shes probably all fucked up in the head and i would hate to have other guys be all over my girl...thats just not cool...
[/quote1233630377]The stripper i dated intimidated me. Not by her stunning looks either. She makes 80k a year dancing and 50k a year off of passive income from past investments SHE(not her parents) made. If that wasn't enough, she had better manners than any one, guy or girl I ever met. Pays for her own school... etc. (shes 19 as well)

[Guest]

That is one smart exotic dancer.