Strip clubs??

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weird, she just told me she is at Sneaky Pete's on a boat... I haven't talked to her in a week or so.

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and as far as dating a stripper...well that would suck. shes probably all fucked up in the head and i would hate to have other guys be all over my girl...thats just not cool...
[/quote1233630377]The stripper i dated intimidated me. Not by her stunning looks either. She makes 80k a year dancing and 50k a year off of passive income from past investments SHE(not her parents) made. If that wasn't enough, she had better manners than any one, guy or girl I ever met. Pays for her own school... etc. (shes 19 as well)
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honestly though, how many strippers do you know of that are like that (even if what she says is true). sure she makes 80k, but she probably also spends 100k. from the strippers ive met, most of them are on drugs, dont have much of a future and probably have a kid or two. now, are all strippers like that? no, of course not. but i garuntee you that the majority of strippers dont have their shit together like the one you dated..

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so...what's the point of them? why do people go to strip clubs? what the hell do you talk to a stripper about?? Do you talk really sexual to them? do you talk to them about your day and pretend you don't notice that they're sitting on your lap naked?

Are the other guys trying to game the strippers? you'd think them pretty unattainable, right? I'm not really interested in most of them at all, but talking to them might help me to build conversation skills.
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Why go?
I'm sure many people have different reasons on why they go to strip clubs! Some go to fill an emotional void in their life, others go for the party, some like the escape from reality. Personally, I truly enjoy the environment......there's drinking, naked women, and good music. I truly enjoy seeing beautiful women naked! These days I go to run game on girls.

What do you talk about?
Any topic that comes to mind! I find strippers who have been in the biz a few years tend to be good at conversation and tend to be pretty open. Last Friday I had a great conversation with a stripper that involved: Books, Psychology, Farmers Market, Dallas Club Scene, Engineering, & Motorcycles. Rarely do I talk about sex with a stripper.

Most strippers that I've talked to have said that they find guys who talk about their day are really boring, but usually have deep pockets! After you've been around them enough the fact that they are naked is not an issue.

Are others gaming strippers?

Of course!

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Prodigy, those of us who play in the strip clubs don't pay for dances to get titties in our face :) Sometimes we'll tip a girl or two on stage a dollar or two, but that's about it. Strippers who think your cool with do all kinds of stuff for free... occasionally you'll also find the hustler who will practically rape you because you WON'T buy a dance from her and she sees you as a challenge and tries to break you down hahaha

You can have tons of fun in a strip club without spending anything other than the cover to get in and whatever you pay for drinks (whether you carry in or buy them there) -- I never end up paying more than a typical night out at a bar or club tho -- the byob places are the best in my experience usually you end up spending cover and a bit for the alcohol you bring with you and that's it -- and the girls for some reason seem to be a lot more social at the byob places

There are well adjusted strippers who are just in it for the money and lead relatively normal lives otherwise but they're the exception not the rule.

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Here's another thought...............a stripper is somewhat like a male version of a pick up artist! She is constantly "sarging" customers. She's got several different approach tactics and tools to generate attraction so they can get what they want. She figures out how long she should spend building attraction before she asks you for a lap dance or ejects. A pua does the same thing before he asks for a phone number/f-close, etc.

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Here's another thought...............a stripper is somewhat like a male version of a pick up artist! She is constantly "sarging" customers. She's got several different approach tactics and tools to generate attraction so they can get what they want. She figures out how long she should spend building attraction before she asks you for a lap dance or ejects. A pua does the same thing before he asks for a phone number/f-close, etc.


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Well said...so I guess it all boils down to who games whom...

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[quote1233689866=UncleHOwie]Here's another thought...............a stripper is somewhat like a male version of a pick up artist! She is constantly "sarging" customers. She's got several different approach tactics and tools to generate attraction so they can get what they want. She figures out how long she should spend building attraction before she asks you for a lap dance or ejects. A pua does the same thing before he asks for a phone number/f-close, etc.[/quote1233689866]



Nice perspective.

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LOL tis true the strippers are much like PUAs... and a lot of them are not very good at it and only succeed due to their hotness and guys being total AFCs/desperate.

These hustler-PUAs even have their own stack/tricks. For example when you hear these questions asked this way, look out:

Can I sit down with you?
You having a good time?
Do you like it here?
Did you like my dancing?
[other yes/no questions you are likely to answer yes to]
Would you like me to dance for you?

You have met a true hustler/"pua" stripper. This is called a Yes-chain :)

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PUArtists can be compared to many things. Strippers, some Hired Guns, Con-(fidance)Artists, PR's, Entrepreneurs, anyone really.

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[quote1233752901=JJE]
LOL tis true the strippers are much like PUAs... and a lot of them are not very good at it and only succeed due to their hotness and guys being total AFCs/desperate.
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haha, they might succeed but they never last 5minutes on the fUn sHiP........AAaaarrrrrrghhhhh matey cuz we are the booty pirates! Now pass me the bottle and get back to swabbin the deck. Long live Captain fUn TiMes
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