another drunk post for your amusement... (said very cynically)

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Wow grimm that is crazy! Be careful man that's a really close call woulda been bad if you got busted for dui and evading.

howie, just showing him we're not all robots here (ironic given my avatar and sig i know lol)

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[quote1219775254=Sleek]Dude, grimm u have my respect for getting away from cops...[/quote1219775254]

He shouldn't.

Yeah, it's a funny ass story in retrospect because you didn't get hurt but man you've got to let us know when you're that drunk. It's absolutely NO problem for us to drop you off, especially me man, I live like 2 minutes from you!!!

I'm guilty of driving incredibly drunk as well, did it last Thursday night.

As a group, we need to set up some structure around this shit.

When the venues close we need to find each other and we need to HONESTLY assess whether or not we should be driving home.

I don't want to hear about someone going to jail, getting a DUI, or worse...

[Guest]

PU definately has a dark side. There have been times I have come home from the bar furious because I felt like nothing I was doing was working and that I was forever doomed to rejection. These nights have decreased in frequency the better I got. Also, the emotions that seem to stem from events like being rejected are created by your reaction to the event.

In my case, I can remember a night were I opened over 10 sets and none of them stuck. I went home, punched walls, threw shit, and basically had a temper tantrum. And I am usually very laidback. I was that way not because of being blown out over and over. It was because of how I construed the situation. I took it to mean I would be alone forever and how unfair it was BLAH BLAH BLAH. Those thoughts are bullshit.

The pain caused by rejection shows you what is wrong and points a way to change. That pain will make you better if you react to it in a positive way.

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haha well it was on foot not in my car. i was in my car but a cop was right there so i got out and went and sat somewhere for a while. after like a long time this cop came up and was going to start something, so I booked it on foot and lost him and i think there was one more. then i hid in a field in the dark while they looked and fell asleep under a tree.

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BR: I said that because I knew he was on foot... he said "he got away from cops and slept in the field." I definitely don't want grimm to get hurt or be in trouble.

Grimm: man those cops must have been some fat and out of shape ones from donuts LOL. I'm glad u r ok man.

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[quote1219776049=grimm1111]haha well it was on foot not in my car. i was in my car but a cop was right there so i got out and went and sat somewhere for a while. after like a long time this cop came up and was going to start something, so I booked it on foot and lost him and i think there was one more. then i hid in a field in the dark while they looked and fell asleep under a tree.[/quote1219776049]


hahahaha!

Now, that IS funny as shit.

OK, I retract my you shouldn't respect him comment...that's fucking hilarious as shit!!!

I don't think Grimm's post was out of frustration from being blown out last night. I mean sets were opening, they just weren't hooking. Sometimes that just happens, I think Grimm knows this.

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on foot is a misdemeanor...by vehicle is a felony. TRUST me you do NOT want the latter. We wont go into details. Let's just say. If you're gonna run from the fuzz then go old fashioned. Glad you didnt get caught either way. Sleeping under tree in a field can have it's own consequences though...hope you checked for ticks. : )

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Yo Grimm....look man I have gone out to clubs and bars with you and I have seen you talk to be people. One thing that me and you have in common is that we are not robotic,we are not "PUAs", we are just dudes going out to have good time,fuck and get into as much trouble as possible. As far as your ex goes in a way i see where your motivation comes from but at the same time you have to cut her out COMPLETELY. Just interacting with her ona a minimal level upsets you so just cut that bitch out of your life once and for all. As far as fucking around goes,yeah it might feel empty but look at all the guys who in a relationship.They hate that shit too! People go from one lifestylfe to another and yet the only thing that remains are complaints of being single or being in a relationship.

Dont worry about being better than this guy or being worse than the other guy. It does not matter. Because you have your whole life ahead of you and you WILL get good. All of us will. I am being realistic. This is my,OUR reality.

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haha well it was on foot not in my car. i was in my car but a cop was right there so i got out and went and sat somewhere for a while. after like a long time this cop came up and was going to start something, so I booked it on foot and lost him and i think there was one more. then i hid in a field in the dark while they looked and fell asleep under a tree.
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Unbelievable!
Thats some ghetto shit man.

..I like it :)

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..no ticks but i think there were fire ants or something because i have fucking red bite marks all up my arms.

...yeah i was crawling around all GI style. drunk GI style.

...yep the frustration isn't from the blowouts - as far as i remember every set that went down I'm the one who did the blowing out not her. i was in a "pissed at the world" mood and i really wasn't interested in talking to any of those girls. Ask Bull Run but i would bet you the reason they were talking bad about me was because i was completely detached from them, being very aloof and snooty and arrogant, and i don't even think i was looking at them while i was talking.

...yeah i don't want a felony. seems like every time i go out i'm damn near a felony of some type. no game in jail. only man love.

...no i don't think they were fat or anything, just not as fast.

...sleek, don't hate girls man. they aren't all the same.

...bull run it's cool man i guess i did just walk in to 1/2 of the conversation and i didn't get that it was a joke because she was really frustrated with me

...just to clear up i didn't say that any of you were robots i said that PUA tactics can be robotic and that there isn't anything in it to explain away the shit that's happened to me in my previous relationships. i'm frustrated because i was in love with her

...i'm not so much trying to say that all fucking around is empty and that all relationships are great, just that for me, i was happiest when i was in an LTR with marie and it was going good. fucking around feels good on the level that it's a rush, it's a power trip, and it's not boring.

...thanks for the solidarity.