I'll keep this one short and sweet.
There is an ancient wisdom that tells us there are three balancing components to happiness and fulfillment in life. If you're a fucking idiot and didn't get it from the title, they are Health, Wealth, and Love.
Now, you can be strong in one or two of these, but still be incredibly unhappy. The key to it all is balance.
It makes me happy to see that some of the guys on here who did so well in the game, and so well with their health, are now doing well financially as well. And some of the guys who had good jobs and took care of their health are starting to get better at knowing and getting what they want in their love lives.
I think it would be good for everyone to assess where they are for themselves.
A "state of the union" if you will.
How are you doing physically? Are you healthy, active, full of life? Or are you fat, slobbery, lazy, etc?
How are you doing financially? Are you able to support yourself and the lifestyle you want to live? Or are you living in mom's basement, spending all your time reading "the game?"
How about love? Do you have friends? How's your family? Are you getting good sex? Is love in your future? Or do you jerk off to Romanian porn?
All these things, and then ask yourself, how are they all balancing out for you?
Do this, and you'll understand for yourself the things you need to do to become a happier person with a more fulfilling life.
Your very own "state of the union."