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Okay, here a here we go.

Muk, I'm gonna lay out as much of this as I can for you. Take it as you will.

First off, I'd like to address your (supposed) continuing problem with not receiving responses to stuff you're expecting responses to. Honestly, this mostly falls on the fact that most people don't have a good idea of your personality...including me...and I've spent quite a bit of time with you. The threads TD mentioned above were of a "general information" nature, and therefore people gave you feedback. The more personal stuff, well we have a hard time figuring out what to say...especially since the Muk I read is different than the Muk I see.

Next, let's talk about the chat last night that you're obviously referring to here. Two veteran members of this community were having a pretty interesting talk about what exactly they thought attraction was. If I remember correctly, your input was as follows:

"Is it true, because of pheromones and stuff, that you should walk around the bar with your fly open?"

"Like 12 yr olds...Jonas Brothers and shit?"

And some other thing I don't quite remember. Did you notice how that the first few comments like this were completely 100% ignored by all in the room? I tried helping you out with the pheromone question and spun it off in a semi-relevant tangent...but after that I just skipped over your text. I undertand they are jokes...but it came across as more of a 13 yr old who knows about some dirty stuff trying to interject randomness in to an adult conversation. There was no calibration to the situation...there was no flow (there was actually an interruption of flow) and stuff like that. It would have gone over A LOT better if you had actually contributed SOMETHING to the conversation before yuckin' it up. It's not what you say, it's how it's read. That applies to social interactions as well...It's not what you say, but how it's heard.

Think about it, bud.