i've narrowed down my inability to talk to women

[cj_lyrix]

ok... i ran through this problem yesterday night... it was me and my friend at this girl's house with alot of her friends were there too. these werent hbs or anything and if they were, i would give them something like an hb3 or something but the problem i'm having is either i'm too blunt or they just dont like what i'm saying and i really dont know what i'm saying to make them feel that way. my friend trys to tell me about it but its so natural to hear it from me that he couldnt remember anything i said. i want to get to the bottom of it and find out what i keep doing wrong and since its natural for me, i need to stop it fast bc its pissing alot of females off. can ya'll give me some suggestions on what i might be doing... something afc's keep doing and what not to say and do around females?

thanks
cj_lyrix

[CarlosB91]

well remember that when you tease a girl it has to truly have good intentions behind it, girls can sense that type of shit. Don't try to lower their self-esteem just tease enough to lower their bitch-shield. Never neg for the sake of making her feel attacked or uncomfortable at a level that pushes you away from her.

And by the way you described the girls, not good looking, chances are they haven't even developed a bitch-shield and negging them would only be detrimental and make you come off as an asshole. Or if you have to neg only neg about things that aren't really that bad and stay away from her looks, tease her on her temper or her curiosity.