The Friendly / Cool method entails not pecking, being the 'tree' in the interaction (vs. squirrel), and having good conversation without heavy kino that RSD teaches. It means being non reactive to their shit tests, and giving the vibe that she's not the first HB you've ever talked to. To be most effective at Friendly / Cool, it's a good idea to talk to everyone in the room, so that you're in state when you're talking to HB's. In Friendly / Cool, you are immune to blowouts affecting your state.
The P in studeyP stands for Proven, because unlike you and IsiMan, I am completing all 30 days of the challenge