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Busting Approach anxiety by doing massive # of approaches!

PostPosted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 1:47 am
by Maver1ck
Hey Guys,

I am going to do a ton of approaches this week to bust through my approach anxiety. I am planning to hit the galleria, the northpark mall, and other addison hangouts as well as gloria's for happy hour and the greenville ave area.

Anybody interested in keeping me honest? I will do the same for you! we can encourage each other to approach a ton of girls! anybody want to join me in doing this?

I will be doing both daytime, happy hour and late night approaching at several venues. I have finally had it and am going for it.

if anyone wants to do it even for a day or 2 with me, please let me know.

you guys can call me @ (469)867-2792

PostPosted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 9:01 am
by Maver1ck
Hey guys,

Do what you are afraid of, and the death of that fear is certain.

when i approach 1 or 2 women after being anxious forever, my state is not good. and the women sensing that are not interested. they also feel like failures and carry more impact than when you approach 50 women and say like 30 of them are interested and give me #, 10 of them act like bitches, and 10 of them don't even show interest. and 1-2 women will feel like just warmup to me then.

I know it is essentially a skill and inorder to improve a skill you have to just do it. going to workshops and seminars constantly is not going to get you anywhere. read material and go to 1 seminar, then go out and just do it.

I know many of you guys know this stuff intellectually, but have trouble 'knowing' it at the gut level and the way to 'knowing' is in the field!

So come one and come all, let's take massive action to get better with women and desensitize ourselves to their reactions.

Any takers for sarging? let me know, I will be your best wingman. let's encourage each other and have some fun!

call me at the number in the previous post.

PostPosted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 12:28 pm
by holyskeleton
galleria is kinda far from me. i usually do it up at stonebriar mall.

PostPosted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 2:08 pm
by Westfall
Mav,

Next time I'm in Dallas, I'll go sarging with you. If I have a strenght, it's no approach anxioty.

WF

PostPosted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 2:48 pm
by Finesse
Westfall wrote:Mav,

Next time I'm in Dallas, I'll go sarging with you. If I have a strenght, it's no approach anxioty.

WF


Aint that the freaking truth.... WF is an approach machine.

How do you pump up your state before approach?

PostPosted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 3:58 pm
by Maver1ck
Galleria shopping chicks are all sarged out. i think they get approached by so many guys that they have a radar for this thing.

It is better to approach the girls that are shopping than to approach the sales girls.

Hey guys, how do you pump up your state? I heard listening to music, having fun with your guy friends as some of the examples. but if you are by yourself, how do you do it?

Anybody have any ideas, please list them? any tried and true ideas?

PostPosted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 4:27 pm
by TheAwakened
Try working out a an hour or two before you go.

I'm trying to set up a day 2 for tomorrow, but if that doesn't work out, I'm up for some sarging with you.