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Approach-a-thon

PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 4:03 pm
by Guest
I am currently reading The Dream Way.
It is written by a guy around my age, 18, and at the beginning of the book he describes his intro to the community.
He says when he first went out to meet actual PUA's he went to an Approach-a-thon in Orlando, where he lives, and this was an event held to learn how to approach women and higher skills.
I know there is the first and third Friday meetups but what about people that cannot attend those due to age, distance, or work issues?
Just throwing this idea out there but what if we got as many people from the lair as possible to meet up let's say once a month on a Saturday at Northpark mall or something during the day? Would you guys be up for that?
What do our moderators think of this idea?
I am sure there are several people that would love for the oppurtunity to meet some of the Dallas PUA kingpins.
I have met one, and he changed my life.


PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 4:23 pm
by Guest
honestly...if you want a 18+ event, feel more than comfortable to set them up! you don't need a Mod or older member to be there

PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 4:37 pm
by Guest
I think this is a great idea, there are a lot of guys on this board who have so much potential to be GREAT pua's, they just, aren't able to go to bars yet. I think an event like this could really strengthen, and bring together alot of guys in this community.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 4:40 pm
by Guest
[quote1235510763=Smirks]
honestly...if you want a 18+ event, feel more than comfortable to set them up! you don't need a Mod or older member to be there
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Yeah I know I don't, but the one catch to that is some of the best guys on here are over 21. I have met Skepsis and he is really good. I have also met Acuity, and although I have not seen him in action here he is good.
I think it would be interesting to see the best of the lair out.
People that can get three somes and people that know this material like the back of there hand.
I know most of you guys say "I don't do day game", but here's something I have seen from personal experience.
One guy that doesn't post on here much, who is an older member came out with me and Sweet Pure on one of our first days sarging.
He said he that it was his first time doing day game.
I am not sure if he closed that day because I left shortly after he arrived, but I have been out with this guy since and have seen him close consistently.
These he is 30+ yrs old and there is this one girl I see every weekend that he has just num closed, but she is also like obsessed with him, that is very hot.
My point is, since you guys are good at night game, day game will probably come with ease to you guys.
Plus, there is plenty of prey that you night owls are missing during the day ;)



btw in this thread I do not intend to insult anyone as I have not met most of you and have no room to insult you, and I really really wish for this not to turn into one of those argument threads, this is more of just a plea for help(I didn't want to say "plea for help" that sounds pathetic and I am not that desperate I just couldnt think of how else to word it).
If this idea became a monthly routine, I know my knowledge and skill of the game, along with many others that cannot attend the current meetups, would explode.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:01 pm
by Guest
Wasn't Dream that guy who did 3000 approaches and only got laid 3 times or something? The guy in The Game who was selling stuff and who still was a virgin? I think that was him lol

My only problem with what you are suggesting is that whenever a bunch of PUAs meet up, in my experience there is always a bunch of subconscious dick-measuring and not enough talking to girls. Especially with younger guys because that's just the way we are. It's just so much more time-effective to go out solo, although it may be much less "fun" and much harder.

Having said that, it's a good idea and I'd be up for it. Northpark is fine with me. Maybe 2 times a month is enough for these meetups. If we have interest, let's do it!

PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:03 pm
by Guest
i don't support such an idea because it looks like we are in a fraternity if so many guys come out. having a bunch of guys walk around the mall hitting on girls is weird.

what if that one person opens the same girl at the mall without knowing? the girl will find it suspicious especially if you use the same opener.

8 guys and then you see that one pretty girl, not every one of us can go after her. also, many of the girls are young, 17-22 year olds, and some of the older members don't want to go after a 17 year old.

PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:07 pm
by Guest
It would work best if it was something like, we all meet up and discuss whatever we want to discuss, and then we pair up and split up. 8 guys walking around is a recipe for disaster, as some of us found out a few months ago :P

PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:10 pm
by Guest
[quote1235513111=Acuity]
My only problem with what you are suggesting is that whenever a bunch of PUAs meet up, in my experience there is always a bunch of subconscious dick-measuring and not enough talking to girls. Especially with younger guys because that's just the way we are. It's just so much more time-effective to go out solo, although it may be much less "fun" and much harder.
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I will take it upon my responsibility to tape a sign on whoever compares dick lengths at these meet-ups back that says "I am a huge homo" and they will be publicly humiliated for the rest of the day unbeknownst to them ;)

I just through North Park out there as an idea.
It is usually target rich.
When we actually have these meetups, we will have to group off.
I would say 3-4 to a group.
4 max.
It's simple, pair the weak with the strong.
THE BULLS WITH THE CALFS
^hint hint^
lol

PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:18 pm
by Guest
[quote1235513582=Sweet Pure]
i don't support such an idea because it looks like we are in a fraternity if so many guys come out. having a bunch of guys walk around the mall hitting on girls is weird.

what if that one person opens the same girl at the mall without knowing? the girl will find it suspicious especially if you use the same opener.

8 guys and then you see that one pretty girl, not every one of us can go after her. also, many of the girls are young, 17-22 year olds, and some of the older members don't want to go after a 17 year old.
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Read my previous post on grouping off.
The experienced guys do not have to approach if they do not wish to.
If they simply showed up and provided their knowledge and analysed our game it would help tremendously, you of all people should know that faiz.
Also, who the f cares what one girl thinks about a bunch of guys hanging together?
And who cares if that girl thinks its wierd that two guys used the same line on them?
I don't.
If a girl says to me "thats wierd. you're actually the second guy to say that to me today" in a bitchy tone, I will not care.
I'll just eject.
My job in the community right now is not to be original, it's to improve.


PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:19 pm
by Guest
[quote1235513969=Acuity]
It would work best if it was something like, we all meet up and discuss whatever we want to discuss, and then we pair up and split up. 8 guys walking around is a recipe for disaster, as some of us found out a few months ago :P
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Exactly.