More paintball?

[Westfall]

As for bringing a day2 to an event dominated by men that are PUAs, that takes some balls haha! I hope this ends up being as much fun as I have it in mind to be (hanging out with you guys and learning the game).

A truly confident man would have no problem bringing a date to a event with lots of PUAs. I would certainly bring a girl, because 1) I would be confident in my own attractiveness enough that I wouldn't be worried about someone else trying to take her, and 2) Most of the guys in this community are pretty cool and certainly wouldn't try to steal one of my girls--that's the cool thing about having PUA friends, they don't feel the need to target every girl out of scarcity....and the douches that would try would get AMOG'd...

Think of my personality like a shit test. You can either plow through until you get to know me or walk away. Aren't we here to strengthen ourselves and our ability to positively interact with not only women, but men also? Don't hate me because I'm beautifully opinionated. You may find it as contributing to my strength as a wingman one day.

Or one could determine you're a dogmatic jackass & not want to get to know you, or even talk to you...why should we want to get to know you, btw? I think a lot of guys in the community feel they need to ACT like an arrogant jackass (which is incongruent with who they really are most of the time), and they use use this as an excuse to be...well rude. And yet I have found it interesting that the best guys in the community, are almost the complete antithisis of this...guys like Twitchy , Zine, Bull Run, Thad, and Welsh are some of the easiest guys to talk to, and IMO, their personalities were plesant & they were fun to talk to the first time I met them...

I also don't think you're beautifully opinionated... IMO, being beauifully opinionated would involve being far more artful & diplomatic in delivering your opinions... I do have some advice that I think wo uld improve your skills as a PUA, but I try not to venture unsolicited advice as much, so if you want hit me up on the paintball field...

I'll be the asshole covered in what looks to be loads & loads of semen.

Westfall

[Kit]

Poker night & video game night sound like great ideas, but I'm not so much into football...

After the last paint ball event I had 34 giant whelps all over my body... I texted several girls asking if that was hott or not, and progressed things from there. Also, a couple of girls saw all of the paintball wounds, and they commented how sexy it was....

Westfall

I like Style's appearance on Jimmy Kimmel when he says these are the same guys that were playing Warcraft a month ago. I am the guy that wasted hours playing online games on the computer. I do not want to be that guy anymore.

I am probably where Neil Strauss was when he locked himself in his room for a month if you have read "The Game." I am trying to break the habbits of spending time on video games or paintball. I want to reinvent myself. I know how to get along with men and meet men. I've always played sports, video games, pool, bowling, paintball, watched football, played all the fantasy sports, done all the guy bonding... I want to seduce women! Maybe once I am where some of you guys are in doing that I'll be ready to move back into more guy stuff. It's quite likely most of you are just further along in the evolution process so take me under your wing and help me along.

[Kit]

Or one could determine you're a dogmatic jackass & not want to get to know you, or even talk to you...why should we want to get to know you, btw? I think a lot of guys in the community feel they need to ACT like an arrogant jackass...

I also don't think you're beautifully opinionated... IMO, being beauifully opinionated would involve being far more artful & diplomatic in delivering your opinions...
Westfall

We are not on an even playing field here. I have a desire to learn this game and watch some of you in the field. I think the known truth here is that I need you and you do not need me. You expect me to demonstrate value. For this reason I could kiss ass to fit in and get what I desire. I'd rather not sacrifice my core values to do that.

I have never in my life been accused as being arrogant or a jackass. I've also never been accused of being diplomatic though, so maybe I fall somewhere in between?

I have always viewed alpha male types, i.e. arrogant jackasses to be weak minded and overly compensating for insecurities. I have, however, been forced to acknowledge that they do command initial interest from women and I want to develop that aspect of their character and learn how to use that to my advantage.

Some of you that have disagreed with me have taken it to a personal level of attack rather stopping and thinking, "why is this guy saying this" or "where might he be coming from?"

I'm going to take into account that you guys are so used to meeting arrogant jackasses or people trying to AMOG that you throw people into that category without truly trying to understand them.

[Bull Run]

Maybe once I am where some of you guys are in doing that I'll be ready to move back into more guy stuff. It's quite likely most of you are just further along in the evolution process so take me under your wing and help me along.

Yeah, this is pretty accurate. After a while women become sort of an afterthough, automatic if you will. You see a woman, you approach a woman, you'll probably succeed with her on some level. I rarely sarge any longer because I pick-up women in my day-to-day life. But entering the Community has sort of created a void with my non-Community friends...I/we all need to hang out with and be friends with guys that have gone through the same rite of passage. It only makes sense that we begin to reach out to the Community to build bonds with our fellow PUAs. Hence paintball.

Once you've done this for a while you'll understand exactly what we're talking about.

[Bull Run]

Or one could determine you're a dogmatic jackass & not want to get to know you, or even talk to you...why should we want to get to know you, btw? I think a lot of guys in the community feel they need to ACT like an arrogant jackass...

I also don't think you're beautifully opinionated... IMO, being beauifully opinionated would involve being far more artful & diplomatic in delivering your opinions...
Westfall

We are not on an even playing field here. I have a desire to learn this game and watch some of you in the field. I think the known truth here is that I need you and you do not need me. You expect me to demonstrate value. For this reason I could kiss ass to fit in and get what I desire. I'd rather not sacrifice my core values to do that.

I have never in my life been accused as being arrogant or a jackass. I've also never been accused of being diplomatic though, so maybe I fall somewhere in between?

I have always viewed alpha male types, i.e. arrogant jackasses to be weak minded and overly compensating for insecurities. I have, however, been forced to acknowledge that they do command initial interest from women and I want to develop that aspect of their character and learn how to use that to my advantage.

Some of you that have disagreed with me have taken it to a personal level of attack rather stopping and thinking, "why is this guy saying this" or "where might he be coming from?"

I'm going to take into account that you guys are so used to meeting arrogant jackasses or people trying to AMOG that you throw people into that category without truly trying to understand them.

Kit, give it some time. Once you've been doing this long enough you're going to get the arrogant/cocky moniker a whole lot more than you might expect. This is sort of the nature of the beast, you show indifference* to a woman and she automatically thinks you're arrogant. Understandbly so.

*Note, by indifference I mean not telegraphing sexual interest. In other words, you're talking to her so she can give you a reason to hit on her. It's a hard thing for most chicks to deal with. Voila - you'll magically be turned into an arrogant guy.

[Smirks]

I might be late to this...and if things go really wrong I'll have to skip. I got called for a job that HAS to be done Saturday... : (

[El Fenix]

A few things:
1. if a girl is in a serious relationship, you walk away from gaming her.
2. this is especially true if the guy is in the community, and you know him.

[Smirks]

What happened to the topic of paintball in the paintball thread?

[El Fenix]

it got shot down