Dallas PUA

ok so i had this girl i was fairly interested in so we went to a hookah bar that i attend regularly down in richardson. I am good friends with one of the waitresses there so its a guaranteed good time. The last time i went i met her gay friend. He spit game like i had never seen before attempting to persuade me to "becoming" gay. Well this time when i went again he was there and came over and smoked with us. He ran some of the best cock block i have ever seen granted i didnt have a wing but i can usually defuse any cockblock. I dont forsee this happening again but just in case it does i need help!!!

Keep this internal; it's not what he did, it's what you didn't do in response. But try being more specific on what he did to cockblock. This "gay" thing sounds like bullshit from the start, I don't think they go out trying to convert people...

We really need specifics to help you out. All I can say is if you hold your frame then you will be fine.

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specifics hmm ok ill try and remember a few things. He called her cute about 20 times no big deal. attempted to make fun of my sense of fashion. said that i was "androgones" (sp) basically acted neither male nor female. Said that i was far too poor for his taste. basically anything he could to make me look beta. Which in anyother case i would turn it around but being gay he did it in a way that didnt make him seem like an ass.

yeah blues i realize what your saying but heres the thing he came at me with an angle that i have yet to encounter so yeah its what i didnt do to respond but thats why i need help here for future reference. On a side note i hung out with her again last night and she has some issues so im gunna let this one go. She has ex boyfriend issues and a lack of maturity to deal with them so it is not worth my time. but i would still like to hear what some of yall would have done because ill be going back to the hookah bar.

dont come off aggressive back in front of her because for most women that is a turn off. Roll with what he gives you and make funny comments back playing off what he is saying to downplay you. This is where you have to start getting good at knowing how to come up with spontaneous replies to comments like that. Dont start talking down about gay people when he brings this up in conversation, instead think of intelligent ways to portray to him why that isnt your type of lifestyle. Make comments about your date in your reasons for not being gay - this is your chance to give her some good compliments and giving him dead ends at the same time.

Remember that for some gay people it is a sexual turnon and goal to try and turn people out. Nothing excites some gay guys more than trying to turn out a straight person - make sure you defenses are up but by polite at the same time and this will impress your date. Sounds like you had your work cut out for you.

flash07 wrote:specifics hmm ok ill try and remember a few things. He called her cute about 20 times no big deal. attempted to make fun of my sense of fashion. said that i was "androgones" (sp) basically acted neither male nor female. Said that i was far too poor for his taste. basically anything he could to make me look beta. Which in anyother case i would turn it around but being gay he did it in a way that didnt make him seem like an ass.

I honestly wouldnt care to be around him and would bounce her to another place ASAP -- If i were to stay though I would do couple of things 1.cut his thread and ignore him and talk directly to the female 2.cut his thread and control the conversation. (Just pick out a key word in his sentence and bring up a new topic useing that word or phrase) 3. Sit back and chill.. 4. Do not forget that there is nothing wrong with telling him straight up that you're not gay and he needs to quit with his gay games.

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yeah thanks alot guys anymore suggestions would be great. This hit me from so far left field i was kinda caught reeling as to what to do but i think i have things under wraps for next time...hopefully. P.S. this place is a fairly easy location to sarge. There can be 50+ people on a friday to saturday night and everyone is pretty open to meeting new people there so its usually easy pickings if anyone wants to hit it up with me, im down a wing.

is it the old velvet hookah?

no place called jasmines off of beltline