Using The Game

[BluesCluesPUA]

One of Juggler's Conversational Jujitsu openers mentions "interpersonal philosophy", and a girl once begged me to tell her more about it than just "it is the art and science of relating to people on a deep, emotional level." So I started talking about its applications in business and, ultimately, seduction as well. TheRussian and I have been discussing the utility of talking to girls about the game for a couple weeks, and we've both gotten very mixed results. Given the knowledge we have on it, and the potential to subtly DHV, I see a lot of possible merit in telling girls a bit about the game. But we haven't spent enough time practicing it to fine tune where it can best be used.

One girl I know used to work at B&N and was opened by a guy buying a copy of the game. It didn't hook, but she says it could have.

One of the girls I talked to about it acted very interested, then proceeded to tell her friends I was weird. I didn't open with it, but I threw it in while we were getting to know each other.

With another girl, I was less direct, but talked a lot about theory and the things I will not do. For example, she knows I don't buy girls drinks or telegraph interest on approach, and she knows why. It has helped me DHV to her and has also led her to become very comfortable with me because I am straightforward and honest about what I do. We were at S1 last night but were interrupted, but S3 will follow soon enough.

TheRussian can probably post a little more about his own experiences with using the game in his sarges.

Anyway, given these mixed results, it's hard for us to determine the best place to insert such material or how much to expand on it. One thing I do want to emphasize is that we are not mentioning the book by name, handing girls a copy of the material, or saying "go check out these websites." The point here is to let them know that there are men out there who know exactly what women want, and to say that you are one of them.

Any feedback will be greatly appreciated. If anyone has ideas, I'll be happy to test them out and report back.

[TheRussian]

BluesClues, that is a very good post. I sometimes approach a girl and start the conversation by saying “I think I’m getting close to figuring out what women want, and I want your opinion on it”. We then sit down and usually end up having a great conversation for a good 15-20 minutes about it, and if it hooks, we move elsewhere and keep talking. What works for me is having this “squint” in my eyes, and keeping very direct EC with the target. I then softly talk to her about what it is that women want, female psychology, and anything else I managed to pick up from reading scene material. I do not directly tell her where I get this information, but only let her know that my goal in life is to be a more aware person, specifically the type of person who can fulfill dreams for others. This is very powerful and it worked on 3 people so far. FR’s will follow later.

Also, I must warn you though that I do not believe that this will work for everyone. You must have a “romantic” essence around you. If you come in as a supa-gangsta-playa and try to talk to her about what women want, it will fail. You must have this soft romantic thing going. I also try to throw in some Russian accent, an advice that Sayber gave me. I try to talk about my homeland and how women were treated right where I come from.

I hope this makes sense,

TheRussian