reflections

[vuurvalk]

AS I SAID B4 i don t ask for digits because most girls flake out anyways and cuz i don t feel at home asking for digits
i give mine and some women ( one in them) have called me !!!


LONG CONVOS
i think it s unrealistic to expect 10 minute convos at the shopping mall!!
those women are there to shop mainly!!!

[peacocked]

Dude I hope you don't think you're a PUA or anything close to it. The malls are the best places to meet girls nad have long conversations.

Your problem is you're not interesting. You're not challenging yourself and you have nothing to offer the women you're talking to and trying to pick up.

If girls are flaking when they give you their number, it's because you're not interesting enough, not because there's something wrong with them. Don't blame everyone else, be responsible enough to look inward and fix your game.

Take a step back, make yourself interesting and and try again when you're ready to commit yourself to more interaction than your 30-second one-liners.

Good luck.

[Wish]

Peacocked, that is super advice for sarging and super advice for life. To blame something else other than yourself is admitting you do not have power over self. You do have the power, and thus the ability to change and become interesting.

[Riley]

Malls are great for me personally because most of my openers are focused towards opinions. The situation openers have to change too much for different groups. And malls are great for fashion advice opinion openers. True though, that it will take much longer for IOI's with a carefully placed Sarge in a mall than in a bar, but the mall situations allow you to (a)be heard clearly (b)go even further under the radar.