Agreement makes Qualification Obsolete
Posted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 10:53 amWhen you talk to the girls, start noticing if they begin to agree with you. Let's say you talk about Rockbands like Kings of Leon or the weather or cool bars.
If she's shaking her head "yes" or saying "yeah!" or giving eye contact as she agrees or smiling and giving you IOI's, then its on.
That feeling of "Its On" is basically an agreement frame with a sexual vibe.
This is really important to notice because it shows they really like you.
Sometimes if you don't get "yes" or agreement, it means that they're not fully invested.
How does this relate to qualification? What does asking "what do you have going for you more than your looks?" have to do with some chick saying yes to all the previous statements and questions?
Everything.
Because if you look at it from a compliance investment standpoint, whenever you make a statement like "Kings of Leon is a great band'" or "This bar is so fun" or "Do you like shuffleboard?" - You are effectively putting up compliance hoops for her. If she's jumping through these, it means that she's invested.
Asking "So can you cook?" is a bonehead thing to ask because she's already there. You're going backwards if you do that. Girls will also let you know you messed up by turning their backs or being cold or witdrawn. They assume you're clueless.
Earlier on, doing A3 or Qualification is ok because you're asking her to invest after you demonstate value (A2). If may be abrupt in the case of "What do you have going for you besides your looks?"
Qualification is a tool that can be used to get investment but its almost like using a sledge hammer to drive a nail. If you use it too early, you come off as an asshole. If you do it later, after you havve agreement, you come off as clueless.
So how do we win?
First, realize that everything we do is a comlpliance test. Listen to my story. Answer my question. Look at me. These are all small hoops.
Next, become aware of the agreements and the yes responses that you're getting.
Calibrate yourself to this and utilize it to step in more sexually explicit frames.
Tribulus
p.s. Thank you CaptainJack.
If she's shaking her head "yes" or saying "yeah!" or giving eye contact as she agrees or smiling and giving you IOI's, then its on.
That feeling of "Its On" is basically an agreement frame with a sexual vibe.
This is really important to notice because it shows they really like you.
Sometimes if you don't get "yes" or agreement, it means that they're not fully invested.
How does this relate to qualification? What does asking "what do you have going for you more than your looks?" have to do with some chick saying yes to all the previous statements and questions?
Everything.
Because if you look at it from a compliance investment standpoint, whenever you make a statement like "Kings of Leon is a great band'" or "This bar is so fun" or "Do you like shuffleboard?" - You are effectively putting up compliance hoops for her. If she's jumping through these, it means that she's invested.
Asking "So can you cook?" is a bonehead thing to ask because she's already there. You're going backwards if you do that. Girls will also let you know you messed up by turning their backs or being cold or witdrawn. They assume you're clueless.
Earlier on, doing A3 or Qualification is ok because you're asking her to invest after you demonstate value (A2). If may be abrupt in the case of "What do you have going for you besides your looks?"
Qualification is a tool that can be used to get investment but its almost like using a sledge hammer to drive a nail. If you use it too early, you come off as an asshole. If you do it later, after you havve agreement, you come off as clueless.
So how do we win?
First, realize that everything we do is a comlpliance test. Listen to my story. Answer my question. Look at me. These are all small hoops.
Next, become aware of the agreements and the yes responses that you're getting.
Calibrate yourself to this and utilize it to step in more sexually explicit frames.
Tribulus
p.s. Thank you CaptainJack.