Isolation Opener
Posted: Fri Jun 18, 2010 11:11 am
A while back I was in a bar that had a back porch and beyond that a gazebo...its a really chill laid back venue and we might consider having a meeting there.
Anyway, I had some eye contact with this girl and her friend and at one point she was walking past me so I said "Hey have you seen the gazebo? Its really beautiful."
She said she had and then invited me to join her and her friend.
I didn't think much of this at the time. But its a really good move.
Its skipping over un-needed bullshit.
1. Eye contact established. This is an A.I.
2. She walks past me, a blatant A.I.
3. I ask for the isolation right off the bat. I'm skipping over all the A2 (f2m) and A3(qualification) stuff and going straight to comfort. Its almost like I said "Hey, want some company out on the lake?"
4. She invites me to join her and her friend. She's saying "I'm more comfortable with you with my friend."
5. I joined her and her friend, had approval and tons of social proof for anyone watching.
So try this thing out.
Find a cool or interesting place in the bar, get some eye contact and ask girls if they've seen it.
This can be as simple as a porch, a quiet area, a pianting or art or a gazebo.
Incidently, has anyone been to Sneaky Pete's ?
-Tribu
Anyway, I had some eye contact with this girl and her friend and at one point she was walking past me so I said "Hey have you seen the gazebo? Its really beautiful."
She said she had and then invited me to join her and her friend.
I didn't think much of this at the time. But its a really good move.
Its skipping over un-needed bullshit.
1. Eye contact established. This is an A.I.
2. She walks past me, a blatant A.I.
3. I ask for the isolation right off the bat. I'm skipping over all the A2 (f2m) and A3(qualification) stuff and going straight to comfort. Its almost like I said "Hey, want some company out on the lake?"
4. She invites me to join her and her friend. She's saying "I'm more comfortable with you with my friend."
5. I joined her and her friend, had approval and tons of social proof for anyone watching.
So try this thing out.
Find a cool or interesting place in the bar, get some eye contact and ask girls if they've seen it.
This can be as simple as a porch, a quiet area, a pianting or art or a gazebo.
Incidently, has anyone been to Sneaky Pete's ?
-Tribu