Dallas PUA

Hey...I know I had asked about Boyfriend Destroyer routine, and I used the Information you gave me on a girl. Shes a HB 7-8 very cute and she took me to go get Coffee at Starbucks (I drove she bought), we went and spoke for about an hour and I feel as if shes comfortable with me...we then got in my car to leave and she started asking me about my past relationships "How many serious relationships have you been in?" I responded with "Thats a change of tone, but I know your attracted to me so its okay" Her "Rightttttttt (Playful and laughing), no im joking". I take this as an IOI, so while driving she brings up the relationship with her B/F and she says that she is faithful but her B/F cheated on her about 8 months ago when they had first got together but she forgave him and that she feels everyone deserves a second chance and how shes faithful. So we keep talking and she tells me shes not telling her B/F about us hanging out and shes like we NEED to hang out this weekend and drink.

-I feel as though Im getting mixed signals and have used your tactics which I feel are working, but in lamens terms what is she saying? And what is the best next step? (I know hang out with her but about the boyfriend)

1. She isnt about to cheat Im in the Friendzone?

2. Use discretion?

3. A test shes trying to give me?

Answers are appreciated Thank you!!!

Go with the flow, but if you don't know or haven't met the boyfriend, it is up to her to be discrete. By telling you that she is faithful to her boyfriend, she is telling you that she does not want to date, she wants to be discrete, and its probably not going to last very long.

Lucky9 wrote:her B/F cheated on her about 8 months ago when they had first got together but she forgave him and that she feels everyone deserves a second chance

She's telling you this because it is going to be her defense if she does get caught.

Lucky9 wrote:shes not telling her B/F about us hanging out and shes like we NEED to hang out this weekend and drink

Translation: She wants to fuck this weekend.

Hope this helps,
Gamble

Yeah, I think Gamble nailed it.

She said: "I don't cheat."

Translation: "I don't GET CAUGHT cheating."

Just keep up the kino, find her comfort level and work it up from there.

One more thing, be ok with her having a boyfriend. She put it on the record, which she has to do for book keeping purposes, now let it go. Don't ask her about it, don't talk about it, don't think about it. Let her handle it.

You have to make this your fault. You have to escalate.

Women are driven by their emotions therefore you have to let her emotions take over but do not let her control the escalation. If she does this, you will not close her because logic will kick in right before you close and she will realize that she is to blame for this happening.

She wants to be able to blame you for driving her emotionally crazy the next day. If she can't blame someone other than herself then you will not close her, and if it gets too high up in escalation you may not get another chance.

Bottom line: Step up and be the man in the escalation. Always control the frame.

Hope this helps,
Gamble

Gamble wrote:You have to make this your fault. You have to escalate.

Gamble, seriously it almost brings tear to my eye bro. You have come soooo far so fast I still remember the first night you went out with me and zulu and you couldn't stay hooked in a set with us... Now your giving really fucking good advice and I can't stay hooked in set with you around!

Rockstar

Awww.... you're so sweet, lol

We gotta hang sometime again before you move to the other hemisphere!