You walk up to a girl or group...You do an opener. She answers it and then turns her back.
Who's been there???
So I heard of guys going "HEY! Don't be Rude!" and they turn her around and basically scold her.
I came up with this little sequence...Here's how it goes...
1.Run Opener.
2. Girl turns her back
3. Say "You're shy" or "Wow! You're shy" She will usually protest at this point by saying "I am not." or "No I'm not shy"
4. You say this "No....its cute....I love it. In fact, I love shy girls..."
(Kino her arm in reassurance as you do this).
(Look her in the eye deeply if you can.)
5. Do a RELEASE. "I can't even talk to you now" and backturn her.
(Pull your arm away. Turn your back to her, break eye contact)
We have just done a bait - hook - reel - release or a push pull sequence.
The next step would be to wait for her to re-engage and just qualify her.
So basically turn your head and don't say a thing. Shut up and be quiet until she re-engages.