some advise i got from a homegirl

[younginj]

what she told me was
something like

"this is how you get laid.
first you have to show interest.
then once you have her on you,
and have her thinking this guy might be intereted in me,
then you back off.
and wait for her to come to you.
sometimes if she sees another girl attracted to you
she will come back to you."