Capitalizing on situations, one upping girls

[Tribulus1000]

I really haven't had alot of time to go out much since I got my new job. The hours aren't conducive to going out. But I do the best I can.

Since I've been kinda time-crunched, I started being a bit more agressive and over-the-top, more assuming the sale.

The idea is to capitalize on opportunities as they come up. Wherever you are, and whenever they are presented, go for it.

I did some of this last night and I told a girl she was giving me a boner. Over the top, right? She laughed at that and then groped me.

Its almost like if they flirt with you, you "one up" them. So anytime they do something to you, you step it up a level.

Another aspect of this is to be totally playful as you do it so that if she says "Hey! Don't do that", you can always play it off.

If you do this, make sure that she's giving you green lights. If she's uninterested, you'll find out pretty quick.

Take on the attitude of "let's see what I can get away with."

That's it.

If you are stopped by the idea of "I'm not gonna be creepy", just remember, she flirted with you first. All you're doing is one upping her.

One of the biggest problems I see with the community is its failure to be sexual or escalate kino. Everyone is afraid of being creepy or getting blown out.

And it seems all of the gurus only feed on the fears of guys trying to improve themselves and get laid.

I have a friend who is always looking to "finesse the deal", what he doesn't realize is that by the time he's recognized that there was a deal, its already gone. Gotta strike when the iron is hot. Get it?

The mindset of this is "Let's see what I can get away with".

Hope this helps someone.

Trib

Brad P "Blow me or Blow me out"

[Blue]

Its almost like if they flirt with you, you "one up" them. So anytime they do something to you, you step it up a level.

i believe thats called escalation.

[Tribulus1000]

Its almost like if they flirt with you, you "one up" them. So anytime they do something to you, you step it up a level.

i believe thats called escalation.

Yeah it sure is.

Mystery's got a formula for kino escalation that is 1) make the move and 2) take it away.
Juggler talks about doing it when she invests in the conversation.

Those are similar but I'm not doing takeaways and I'm not so concerned with words.

This is more basic. She flirts. You flirt and take it up a notch. If she doesn't like it, just stop. Make a joke of it.

There's no "that's all you get" or "we should stop" (because I'm not gonna stop)