Dallas PUA

Anybody here run any direct game?

That is to say, you walk straight up to the target and open with something like Shark's opener "I like you, I want to get to know you" or something, with super body language.

If anyone is experienced in direct, maybe you can shed some light on what's supposed to come after that - jump in to rapport?


I had some congruency problems on Friday night with opinion openers being shit tested, so on Saturday I ditched them completely and I simply introduced myself. I had much more success and actually there wasn't one woman in the bar who reacted negatively to it. So I'm interested in exploring the method a little more as I haven't ever really used it.

Will post my take.

I don't run direct game. I do escalate pretty quick though.

I never tell a girl my name unless she asks. Yes this can be debated just like everything else but it is what I do. I show very little interest if any. I believe that if you introduce yourself you show too much interest. If she asks your name that means she is somewhat interested at the very least. Being direct though of course introducing yourself is acceptable. I would still not do it though even during direct game because. If you are running direct game and she asks your name you know you are probably going in the right direction. So wait for it.

I never compliment. I never tell a girl she is hot, she is sexy, she is anything unless she is in my bed and well I am so compelled by her amazing body that I must tell her how fucking sexy she is. She is naked at this point and I just don't see how that could hurt anything.

I never jump through any hoops. If a girl ask me my age I say guess.

I disqualify myself probably way too much. I see you have a ring on your finger are you married? Yes I am married. Are you really married? No I just wear this ring so ugly chicks won't hit on me. I am gay though.

I almost always tell a girl I work at burger king if she asks what I do. I really need to quit doing this but ohh well I still do. So far it has only hurt me once that I know of(probably more though and I doubt it helps). The girl rolled her eyes and I fucked with her super hard core about it. 95% of the time the girl either plays along or just doesn't believe me.

I am in no way knocking direct game. I mearly post this as I do the complete opposite.

I will leave it like this. I don't give two shits who you are and how good you are it is still a numbers game out there. I know it sucks that I am writing this. The difference is however if you do get really good your odds no doubt improve. You still won't pull every girl but your % will increase. So even if you run direct game you will pull.

My good friend has absolutely no clue about the community. I know for a fact he has nailed 7 girls this year. He got every single one of these girls with direct game. I have seen him walk up to a girl and compliment her looks and nail her within 24 hours. I will say however that he is a tall, big, good looking guy by most girls account. Does this play a part in direct? You bet your ass.

The beauty of this game is there are so many avenues you can take. You tried opinion openers and felt they didn't work. So now you are trying direct. Hey man if it works wonders for you stick with it. If not just move on to something else and give that a try. Eventually you will take a little from here and there and mold it into your perfect method.

Goodluck

playercool wrote:Will post my take.

I don't run direct game. I do escalate pretty quick though.

I never tell a girl my name unless she asks. Yes this can be debated just like everything else but it is what I do. I show very little interest if any. I believe that if you introduce yourself you show too much interest. If she asks your name that means she is somewhat interested at the very least. Being direct though of course introducing yourself is acceptable. I would still not do it though even during direct game because. If you are running direct game and she asks your name you know you are probably going in the right direction. So wait for it.

I never compliment. I never tell a girl she is hot, she is sexy, she is anything unless she is in my bed and well I am so compelled by her amazing body that I must tell her how fucking sexy she is. She is naked at this point and I just don't see how that could hurt anything.

I never jump through any hoops. If a girl ask me my age I say guess.

This is pretty much how I roll as well, and to your point i find it escalates very quickly, for me very caveman style, and you get sucked into your own little world, and i find very little rapport building (well... verbal.... ) ever actually occurs. It's just becomes very physical, in the moment, and by the end of the night, i realize i really know nothing about the girl other than her name...everything just seems to click and you are in the zone with each other. Although this for me usually comes after a strong IOI and if i dig the girl, this is usually the path things go, so I can't say this is really off a cold approach. But if the IOI is there, i've found this to be the best approach.

i'm not sure if that's technically considered 'direct game' ...

Sure, direct game works. But where's the fun in that? There's no chase or anything. I don't know about you guys, but my number one goal when I go out is to HAVE SOME FUNNNN!!! I never go direct in my words but I do go direct in my actions (kissing, biting, hair pulling, etc.). I also go over-the-top direct which is so much fun. I say the most absurd stuff (I love you, we're going to get married, I never meet anyone like you) and they always call bullshit but they love it just the same.

Lion wrote:Sure, direct game works. But where's the fun in that? There's no chase or anything. I don't know about you guys, but my number one goal when I go out is to HAVE SOME FUNNNN!!! I never go direct in my words but Ido go direct in my actions (kissing, biting, hair pulling, etc.).

yea to me this is direct...what is the community definition of 'direct game'?

to me 'direct' is.... it's clear what the interaction is all about...none of this opinion, games, fluff, etc.

grimm1111 wrote:Anybody here run any direct game?

That is to say, you walk straight up to the target and open with something like Shark's opener "I like you, I want to get to know you" or something, with super body language.

If anyone is experienced in direct, maybe you can shed some light on what's supposed to come after that - jump in to rapport?


I had some congruency problems on Friday night with opinion openers being shit tested, so on Saturday I ditched them completely and I simply introduced myself. I had much more success and actually there wasn't one woman in the bar who reacted negatively to it. So I'm interested in exploring the method a little more as I haven't ever really used it.

Hey Bro,
I do direct and I love it.

You should check out the philosophy of Direct Game. Its all about being a man and showing interest.

Don't hide your desires. Don't do takeaways or be coy or disinterested.

Give women what they want which is YOU.

The idea is that women are at the bar or out and waiting for their prince on the white horse to come along.
You come along and tell them you are the prince on the white horse.

You can be sexual. You can show interest.

If they turn you down, you don't get upset because you don't apologize for being a man.

Alot of the same stuff you learn with indirect still applies like body language, tonality, eye contact and calibrating to the situation. In other words, you're not salivating on every woman you meet.

I like it because its liberating.

You can still qualify them but you're less cocky about it. Its more about being authentic and real and in the moment.

I would not say I am great at direct, I pick when I do it, I really go for it. I've had some really good sets with it.

Its not for everybody and I'm not here to debate it. I really don't care what other guys think of it.

Honestly: There is no way to run like the perfect game, there is however ways that you can improve your success. A guy with bad body posture for example might be able to pick up a girl that if he had good body posture he would be able to pick up also. But good body posture will always be better and make some difference with other girls so you increase your success by improving your body posture.

As far as direct game, there are ways to increase your success as well. Heres a few tips I would give.

For direct game I always think it is better to use direct game with girls that are alone or at least to direct the comments to one girl. You don't want to walk up to a group and say you all are cute. It just doesn't fly as well especially if one of them is less cute or not cute at all. Then she will be happy as hell but her friends will be like umm we aren't on the same level in their heads.

Also its better if you walk straight to them and have a relaxed confidence about yourself. If you are nervous or waste time standing near them it won't come off nearly as well as if you had just approached right away.

I find it also very helpful that whatever compliments you give them right off the bat, you have some other way of showing they still have work to do to win you over.

This is a bad example but like if you walked up and told a girl you thought she was really cute you might say something like but you better be cool if you want to hang out with me. or I hope you have a good personality. This example isn't very good but you get the idea whatever you compliment her on or if you just walk up and say something like I like you, make sure she knows she hasn't completely proved herself to you based on looks there is still stuff she has to qualify for.

Those are just a few tips i can think of in 10 seconds hope they help and if you get any specific questions PM me.

"You guys look like fun, are you friendly?"
My favorite direct opener. Haven't used it a lot though.

Yeah man Direct Game rocks.

If you haven't tried it, go out and try a few sets. The difference with Direct Game is that its more of a philosophy than a step by step method.

Its honest and its sexual.

Its different than Mystery Method but that's ok because let's face it, people have been fucking for millenia.

Best of Luck

Tribulus

El Fenix wrote:"You guys look like fun, are you friendly?"
My favorite direct opener. Haven't used it a lot though.

yea that follows exactly what I was talking about... After a direct statement mention something she still has to qualify on. Like the are you friendly? is good because it questions her personality.