When to Neg?

[flash07]

I have run into this problem alot in the field. On here most guys say only neg 8,9,or 10's. What about that 7-8 that thinks she is a 15. We all know the ones im talking about. Alot of times its the obnoxious friend that just wont shut up. This could just be that me being younger my targets tend to be younger girls who are often times less grounded and self aware so make up for it by being obnoxious.

[Bull Run]

Negging isn't about what value you give them...it's about the value they give themselves.

You can meet a 5 that thinks she's a 10. YOU can neg her.

You can meet a 10 that thinks she's a 5. You can't neg her. (By the way, if you meet this chick give her my number. Chicks with the Ugly Duckling Syndrome are the best.....BY FAR)!!!

[knight rose]

Ok...here is how I neg...

I dont neg right off the bat.. Instead I disqualify and gauge her reaction as I continue the set.

If she is subdued then I go in for a compliment. (not the AFC compliment, but the PUA compliment i.e I like your shoes...they go with your pants...did you pick them out yourself? Credit: mangus and Geoff of RSD )

If she is fiesty instead I neg the usual hair, nails etc. but in a half joke playfull way. This time I watch her reaction cause she will shit test...yes she will...and then you just handle the shit test which ever method you have.

Both of these aproaches will cause her to try to get rapport with you...This is the key to watch for...cause you dont want to neg when she is trying to gain rapport. That will just piss her off (either that or my game is not good enough to handle the pissed of HB). This last point I learned a week ago at the hooters in Addison with web_hand winging me...LOL