Step by Step Date on Day2
Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2007 5:34 pmOn a date:
First of all I would recommend not going out for a movie or a restaurant. A restaurant is too demanding on both parties and it causes too much unneeded pressure. A movie is fucking useless because you don't get to run any game. Putting your arm behind her back and slowly sneaking up on her during the movie is awesome, in grade school.
Anyways, if you guys ever read DYD material you probably know this style of date, which I have done a few times in the past… I modified it a lot and only kept the skeletal guidelines. This is cruel and unusual punishment for a woman, pay attention:
To invite her out to the actual date you will have to adjust to the situation, I will not hit on that part in this post. Once you have her out, dedicate EXACTLY 30 minutes of time.. I mean it Romeo, on the dial. I often start the date out by chatting a little, following which I will run a cold reading game. At this point I will "find out" her personality. I like to explain step by step how the game is done, and then tell her that the game is just a front, that I actually found out all I need to know about her in the first 5 minutes of chatting with her. On my last date of this kind I had the girl run the game back on me, which is a cool experience for her and invests her in the interaction since she has to learn something new. As we all know investment = good.
Anyways, I can't paraphrase an entire date… I'll skip ahead to the 25 minute mark. After we play thumb wars, and after I ran the little game where she has to move her hands back and forth 3 times and then 10 times (Credit to AFC London for bringing it to Texas, and Vector for showing it to me, works great =) I won't write how to do it, it would take too long) I have her put her hands out facing upwards, and we play that game where she has to hit my hands and I need to pull away in time, and then switch…
Let me pause here for a sec and make sure to tell you that you need to SPREAD these game out.. Don't run one after the other, it will make a clown out of you. So if you plan to play many of these little game, make sure that you are overall serious to balance it out..
To continue.. While her hands are on top of mine and she continues to play the hand slapping game, I look in her eyes and ask her questions. Since her hands are in contact with mine, it creates SUPER fucking HUGE tension.. look her in the eyes, and keep playing.. At this point you can ask her questions that are personal or just casual, or make direct statements.. Questions can be anything.. "Would you rather make out in the rain or talk under the moonlight", or a statement: "You are a fascinating person, we are having a great time".. It doesn't fucking matter what you ask or say as long as it keeps up the tension moment as long as possible, this means that what you say needs to MOVE her emotions somewhere.. Don't talk about Grandma's cookies unless it makes her feel something =) ...
Now here is the cruel part…. You are sitting there staring into each others eyes, building tension.. When all of a sudden you say "It's time for me to go".. look at your watch, nod in disbelief and tell her "This was great, I think that we are going to make VERY good friends in the future…" Get up and start leaving.. walk her to her car.. and right as you are about to leave say:
"Oh, [NAME], I was meaning to tell you something… *look her in the eyes*, …."
Her: "What?"
You: "I'll tell you next time =), I have got to go" and leave…
Wow WTF.. you just left her hanging hardcore.. You just told her that you want to be friends, and she also thinks that you are going to tell her that you like her or something, but don't make the mistake of telling her anything like that until you slept with her 3 times. Next time you meet, and if you have done this right her curiosity will get the best of her and make her want to come out, do not say anything about what you were "going" to say.. this will create further curiosity and tension.
Thanks to Rhodey for the Thumb wars idea, Vector for showing me the hand move game. We have many great assets in this community =)
First of all I would recommend not going out for a movie or a restaurant. A restaurant is too demanding on both parties and it causes too much unneeded pressure. A movie is fucking useless because you don't get to run any game. Putting your arm behind her back and slowly sneaking up on her during the movie is awesome, in grade school.
Anyways, if you guys ever read DYD material you probably know this style of date, which I have done a few times in the past… I modified it a lot and only kept the skeletal guidelines. This is cruel and unusual punishment for a woman, pay attention:
To invite her out to the actual date you will have to adjust to the situation, I will not hit on that part in this post. Once you have her out, dedicate EXACTLY 30 minutes of time.. I mean it Romeo, on the dial. I often start the date out by chatting a little, following which I will run a cold reading game. At this point I will "find out" her personality. I like to explain step by step how the game is done, and then tell her that the game is just a front, that I actually found out all I need to know about her in the first 5 minutes of chatting with her. On my last date of this kind I had the girl run the game back on me, which is a cool experience for her and invests her in the interaction since she has to learn something new. As we all know investment = good.
Anyways, I can't paraphrase an entire date… I'll skip ahead to the 25 minute mark. After we play thumb wars, and after I ran the little game where she has to move her hands back and forth 3 times and then 10 times (Credit to AFC London for bringing it to Texas, and Vector for showing it to me, works great =) I won't write how to do it, it would take too long) I have her put her hands out facing upwards, and we play that game where she has to hit my hands and I need to pull away in time, and then switch…
Let me pause here for a sec and make sure to tell you that you need to SPREAD these game out.. Don't run one after the other, it will make a clown out of you. So if you plan to play many of these little game, make sure that you are overall serious to balance it out..
To continue.. While her hands are on top of mine and she continues to play the hand slapping game, I look in her eyes and ask her questions. Since her hands are in contact with mine, it creates SUPER fucking HUGE tension.. look her in the eyes, and keep playing.. At this point you can ask her questions that are personal or just casual, or make direct statements.. Questions can be anything.. "Would you rather make out in the rain or talk under the moonlight", or a statement: "You are a fascinating person, we are having a great time".. It doesn't fucking matter what you ask or say as long as it keeps up the tension moment as long as possible, this means that what you say needs to MOVE her emotions somewhere.. Don't talk about Grandma's cookies unless it makes her feel something =) ...
Now here is the cruel part…. You are sitting there staring into each others eyes, building tension.. When all of a sudden you say "It's time for me to go".. look at your watch, nod in disbelief and tell her "This was great, I think that we are going to make VERY good friends in the future…" Get up and start leaving.. walk her to her car.. and right as you are about to leave say:
"Oh, [NAME], I was meaning to tell you something… *look her in the eyes*, …."
Her: "What?"
You: "I'll tell you next time =), I have got to go" and leave…
Wow WTF.. you just left her hanging hardcore.. You just told her that you want to be friends, and she also thinks that you are going to tell her that you like her or something, but don't make the mistake of telling her anything like that until you slept with her 3 times. Next time you meet, and if you have done this right her curiosity will get the best of her and make her want to come out, do not say anything about what you were "going" to say.. this will create further curiosity and tension.
Thanks to Rhodey for the Thumb wars idea, Vector for showing me the hand move game. We have many great assets in this community =)