Intuition

[ACEofHEARTSS]

examples of cold-reads (Swingcat, "Real World Seduction")
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[actor vs. observer]

ME: (looking at the blonde) I bet that you are more of an observer than an actor.
BLONDE: What do you mean?
ME: There are some people in this world who are totally in the moment.
They are the ones who are always participating in what is going on. They are actors.
Then there are people who are kinda standing back, analyzing what is going on.
They are observers. You are an observer. I bet that sometimes there are things that
come along that you want to do, but before you do them, you have to think about it,
analyze it. But you are happiest when you can just let go, not analyze, and be in the moment.
BLONDE: Yea that is very true about me.
ME: But with her (pointing to the brunette), she is more adventurous.
BRUNETTE: Your good.
ME: I bet you like attention.
BRUNETTE: Well...
ME: From people that are special to you, you really love attention. And it’s like in that
context, you feel comfortable and enjoy being the centre of attention.
BRUNETTE: yea...very true.
ME: Yea, see, I am the same way...

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[being adventurous vs. not opening up easily]

ME: I know. Were you close with your father?
BRUNETTE: No... maybe when I was really young... but when I was older, I was not close to him.
ME: You know, I can tell that about you, because although I bet you are adventurous,
there is a part of you that maybe you keep closed and don't open up that easy.
There is a part of you that sometimes has a hard time letting people know the real you.

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[innocent smile vs. sinister eyes]

"You have such a little girl's smile; it is so innocent. But I can
tell from your eyes that you have a sinister side to you".

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[not taking chances vs. being adventurous]

"I can tell that you are someone who at times does not take chances,
and sometimes you want to shoot yourself in the foot because you did
not have the courage to try something new... But other times you are
adventurous and do take chances... And this is when you have the best
time because this is the real you".

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[tough on the outside but sensitive on the inside]

"You know what: You put on this whole act of being tough, but on the
inside, you are really sensitive". If the woman puts up a tough
exterior, she probably is sensitive. Many people - and especially
girls - who act tough on the outside are really sensitive. If it’s
true about them, follow it up by telling them that you can relate
because you are that way too. This builds comfort, rapport, and a
bond between you and her. Now you might want to solidify the bond by
telling her a story about why you are this way too

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[maturity vs. being a little girl]

"I bet a lot of people think you are really mature, but l know better.
I can tell from (say eyes... or because of some expression she makes)
that you are really just a little girI".

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[actor vs. observer]

"there are really two types of people in this world: observers and actors.
And I can tell by the way you carry yourself that you are an observer.
You might even be one of those people watchers... and I know this because
your arms are crossed and you are slightly leaning back. But I will tell you
something... I bet you are truly happy when you can just let go and be in the
moment...right?"

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[looking innocenct vs. being mischievious]

"You look innocent but there is a part you that is very mischievous"
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Jealous Boyfriend Routine (ZenDragon)
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Everytime when I'm talking to a girl. Another guy waves to her, or comes over
to give her a hug, or comes over to chat with her briefly. I would say to the
girl...

"hey is that your jealous boyfriend?"
"good, 'cause last week I was at this bar, a jealous boyfriend saw his
girlfriend talking to me and tried to start a fight with me..."

This will

1) Indirectly demonstrate social proof
2) reveal her relationship with the guy
3) get her to qualify herself by telling you "oh no he's cool" "oh no he
doesn't care" "oh no we're just friends" "oh no, i don't know him that well"
4) frame that guy as a 'jealous type' in case he's an AMOG who may CB you later
5) open up another interesting conversation thread.
6) Moving the 2 of you in the frame of "since he's not the jealous boyfriend,
we can do more intimate things together"

On Friday I chatted up this girl who sat next to me on a couch, after a few
minutes, a guy came over and sat next to her on the other side. I ran the
"jealous boyfriend" routine, she said "no he's fine". I said "cool, what if we
cuddle? will he get jealous then?" she laughed and said "no he won't". We
started cuddling. She followed me around for the rest of the night and
eventually email closed me in front of her REAL boyfriend.

Now in hindsight, while we were cuddling, I should also have said "what if we
kiss? will he be jealous THEN?" to see if she'd go for it right there and then.

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[vuurvalk]

what s your take on SWINGCATS METHOD,
HOW ABOUT HIS AUDIOCOURSE,
thanx

[ACEofHEARTSS]

what s your take on SWINGCATS METHOD,
HOW ABOUT HIS AUDIOCOURSE,
thanx

SwingCat was an AFC who when through SS and became an SS GOD. Now he's mixed w/other techniques to form his own. I respect and admire his work even thought he's no longer in the SS community however his sarges are SS based.

[Mojo]

Cold reads are supurb. You rattle off truisms and it appears you understand her. That you are connecting a deep level. That you were meant to be.. blah blah...

I have incorporated more truisms. Last thursday a girl said she felt like she was about to crt cause I said something that showed I "understood" her when in all actuality it could be said to any girl and make sense. If I remember correctly, I made a comment along the lines that she was soft and had a big heart on the inside though could hide it from the world to feign strength.