Notes from Badboy's seminar
Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 10:09 am[(Fresh from SanFran Lair) notes, transcribed in the order written. Several of the kino moves and concepts will not translate well to text, so if you missed the actual seminar, you'll have to be creative.]
Direct game. Girls want you to be a dominant MAN.
American girls are insecure. Everyone is programmed.
If you think you have a problem, you do.
It starts and ends with you.
You are not picking her up, you're picking YOU up.
Emotions are contagious.
If you're nervous, she will be.
Girls are MIRRORS for how you view yourself.
If you think you don't deserve her, why should she think you do?
They don't want to choose.
They don't WANT to be a prize.
They want to be the chosen.
9s and 10s are even insecure.
She's spending FIVE FUCKING HOURS looking beautiful for YOU. She's not the fucking prize.
You control her behavior.
Set expectations.
Treat her like a dirty, naughty girl, she will be.
It's not about words.
Bad Boy does better speaking Croatian than English!
Don't try to change what she thinks, change what she feels.
Produce five emotions:
1) EMOTION NUMBER ONE: RELAXED
Approach her in a relaxed state.
They are mirrors. If you are relaxed, she will be.
If you are nervous and anxious, she will be nervous and think you're creepy.
2) EMOTION NUMBER TWO: ATTRACTED [Fresh Edit: changed from "attractive"]
When she is relaxed, make her feel attractive.
They don't necessarily want a rich guy, just a confident protector who can keep her safe.
Women don't want the insecure prehistoric nerd painting on the cave wall.
They want the badass cave man who kills dinosaurs with his bare hands.
Money is merely the surface facade for power. It used to be a safe shelter with food.
My favorite pick-up rule of all time: "Don't talk about it, just do it."
3) EMOTION NUMBER THREE: TRUST
This is the key in seduction.
The more you trust them, the more they trust you.
The more you LEAD the more they trust.
Badboy says: the "Don't buy her a drink" rule is wrong.
In this game there are no rules, every set will be different.
Calibrate. Calibration is the key.
Lead, be dominant.
Lead her: "I'm thirsty. Let's get a drink." It's about you.
Lead her: "Hey, there are some chairs open. Let's go sit down."
High heels hurt, notice how she's feeling, and calibrate.
Read, lead, progress.
4) EMOTION NUMBER FOUR: COMFORT
Physical comfort.
Kino!
Don't leave your clammy fingers clutching her shoulder, just let your arm lightly rest on it.
Kino always follows the same path.
Hands => Arms, Kino games, high fives => shoulders/holding => Kissing => Tits => Stomach => Full close
5) EMOTION NUMBER FIVE: CONNECTION
Be her soul mate.
This is the only part that requires you to be verbal.
Connect on different topics.
Open lots of topics is the easiest way.
The only different thing for every set is the attract phase.
BE A REFLECTION OF HER DREAMS.
She wants a bad boy? Be him.
She wants a stable guy she could settle down with? Be him.
Dominant = Achieving things WITHOUT force.
Aggressive = Achieving things USING force.
Force leads to resistance.
If you use Level 1 Force she will use Level 1 Resistance.
If you use level 9 Force she will use Level 9 Resistance.
Badboy Hand-Opener-Maneuver.
Badboy Finger-Hooks.
Still have a logical reason for things, root everything.
Doesn't even need to be logical, just do it.
Girls in a club aren't the same person.
Clubs are fake. Fake personas.
Badboy hilarious opener: "Let me ask you something. My best friend just died. *pause* How long should I wait to start dating his girlfriend?"
Instead of picking up girls Badboy decided to try to make ONE girls day. Just go and make her happy.
Most guys want something from girls but won't give anything back!
Celeste + Danielle Seminar Sunday 9/9 (See you all there!)
Double-Hand-Kino-Spin => "You and me... we need to talk."
Finger-Hooks-Kino-Pull => "Let's Go."
[Awesome Food Break- I meet and shake hands with Bad Boy who seems very cool and friendly]
Pussy perfume. Visit your fuck buddy then sarge.
Chair-Pull-Spin-Hip-Push-Sit-Down-Maneuver.
Double-Inverse-Hand-Lead-Chair-Sit-Between-HBs-Kino-Maneuver.
WHAT IS REJECTION?
I have a boyfriend => "I don't want to be your boyfriend! I just want to get to know you."
I'm going to the bathroom => Actually was head nodding that she wanted to bathroom f-close with Badboy.
Throws water on Badboy => Gets a bucket, throws water on her, starts making out.
RESISTANCE IS AN IOI!
Resistance is part of the game. It's not the end of the game, it's the beginning.
All is fair in love and war.
No rules.
Know your "enemy."
Arm-Spin-Hand-Pull-Ear-Whisper-Push-Away: "You are so. fucking. sexy."
# Close: Hand her the paper => "You're a smart girl, you know what to do."
THE GUYS IN MIXED SETS ARE OUR BEST FRIENDS!
He already picked her up, brought her here, bought her drinks, etc. etc.
This guy already did half the work for you.
Day 2s: She picks the time, you pick where/what you do.
"Oh, and bring some running shoes." Keep her guessing, keep her challenged.
Mini golf, Pool, Go Carts, Telescope + Stargazing w/ blankets, etc.
Party Girls VS. Emotional Girls
Party Girls need lots of leading, be very dominant, etc.
Emotional Girls need you to be a good soul mate, connect and rapport.
Your place is better than her place because you control the environment.
Day Game: "Stop." Opener. Physically move her and lead her ASAP.
She is not the happiness in your life, she is simply ONE of the many things that makes you happy.
The 2.5 LTRs rule: 2 Main girls with one "sure thing" FB backup.
Direct game. Girls want you to be a dominant MAN.
American girls are insecure. Everyone is programmed.
If you think you have a problem, you do.
It starts and ends with you.
You are not picking her up, you're picking YOU up.
Emotions are contagious.
If you're nervous, she will be.
Girls are MIRRORS for how you view yourself.
If you think you don't deserve her, why should she think you do?
They don't want to choose.
They don't WANT to be a prize.
They want to be the chosen.
9s and 10s are even insecure.
She's spending FIVE FUCKING HOURS looking beautiful for YOU. She's not the fucking prize.
You control her behavior.
Set expectations.
Treat her like a dirty, naughty girl, she will be.
It's not about words.
Bad Boy does better speaking Croatian than English!
Don't try to change what she thinks, change what she feels.
Produce five emotions:
1) EMOTION NUMBER ONE: RELAXED
Approach her in a relaxed state.
They are mirrors. If you are relaxed, she will be.
If you are nervous and anxious, she will be nervous and think you're creepy.
2) EMOTION NUMBER TWO: ATTRACTED [Fresh Edit: changed from "attractive"]
When she is relaxed, make her feel attractive.
They don't necessarily want a rich guy, just a confident protector who can keep her safe.
Women don't want the insecure prehistoric nerd painting on the cave wall.
They want the badass cave man who kills dinosaurs with his bare hands.
Money is merely the surface facade for power. It used to be a safe shelter with food.
My favorite pick-up rule of all time: "Don't talk about it, just do it."
3) EMOTION NUMBER THREE: TRUST
This is the key in seduction.
The more you trust them, the more they trust you.
The more you LEAD the more they trust.
Badboy says: the "Don't buy her a drink" rule is wrong.
In this game there are no rules, every set will be different.
Calibrate. Calibration is the key.
Lead, be dominant.
Lead her: "I'm thirsty. Let's get a drink." It's about you.
Lead her: "Hey, there are some chairs open. Let's go sit down."
High heels hurt, notice how she's feeling, and calibrate.
Read, lead, progress.
4) EMOTION NUMBER FOUR: COMFORT
Physical comfort.
Kino!
Don't leave your clammy fingers clutching her shoulder, just let your arm lightly rest on it.
Kino always follows the same path.
Hands => Arms, Kino games, high fives => shoulders/holding => Kissing => Tits => Stomach => Full close
5) EMOTION NUMBER FIVE: CONNECTION
Be her soul mate.
This is the only part that requires you to be verbal.
Connect on different topics.
Open lots of topics is the easiest way.
The only different thing for every set is the attract phase.
BE A REFLECTION OF HER DREAMS.
She wants a bad boy? Be him.
She wants a stable guy she could settle down with? Be him.
Dominant = Achieving things WITHOUT force.
Aggressive = Achieving things USING force.
Force leads to resistance.
If you use Level 1 Force she will use Level 1 Resistance.
If you use level 9 Force she will use Level 9 Resistance.
Badboy Hand-Opener-Maneuver.
Badboy Finger-Hooks.
Still have a logical reason for things, root everything.
Doesn't even need to be logical, just do it.
Girls in a club aren't the same person.
Clubs are fake. Fake personas.
Badboy hilarious opener: "Let me ask you something. My best friend just died. *pause* How long should I wait to start dating his girlfriend?"
Instead of picking up girls Badboy decided to try to make ONE girls day. Just go and make her happy.
Most guys want something from girls but won't give anything back!
Celeste + Danielle Seminar Sunday 9/9 (See you all there!)
Double-Hand-Kino-Spin => "You and me... we need to talk."
Finger-Hooks-Kino-Pull => "Let's Go."
[Awesome Food Break- I meet and shake hands with Bad Boy who seems very cool and friendly]
Pussy perfume. Visit your fuck buddy then sarge.
Chair-Pull-Spin-Hip-Push-Sit-Down-Maneuver.
Double-Inverse-Hand-Lead-Chair-Sit-Between-HBs-Kino-Maneuver.
WHAT IS REJECTION?
I have a boyfriend => "I don't want to be your boyfriend! I just want to get to know you."
I'm going to the bathroom => Actually was head nodding that she wanted to bathroom f-close with Badboy.
Throws water on Badboy => Gets a bucket, throws water on her, starts making out.
RESISTANCE IS AN IOI!
Resistance is part of the game. It's not the end of the game, it's the beginning.
All is fair in love and war.
No rules.
Know your "enemy."
Arm-Spin-Hand-Pull-Ear-Whisper-Push-Away: "You are so. fucking. sexy."
# Close: Hand her the paper => "You're a smart girl, you know what to do."
THE GUYS IN MIXED SETS ARE OUR BEST FRIENDS!
He already picked her up, brought her here, bought her drinks, etc. etc.
This guy already did half the work for you.
Day 2s: She picks the time, you pick where/what you do.
"Oh, and bring some running shoes." Keep her guessing, keep her challenged.
Mini golf, Pool, Go Carts, Telescope + Stargazing w/ blankets, etc.
Party Girls VS. Emotional Girls
Party Girls need lots of leading, be very dominant, etc.
Emotional Girls need you to be a good soul mate, connect and rapport.
Your place is better than her place because you control the environment.
Day Game: "Stop." Opener. Physically move her and lead her ASAP.
She is not the happiness in your life, she is simply ONE of the many things that makes you happy.
The 2.5 LTRs rule: 2 Main girls with one "sure thing" FB backup.