Leading like a MAN!

[Maver1ck]

A lot of the pua gurus keep saying to lead, lead and lead.

At first I thought that meant that you should physically lead the woman around to different places in the bar and then to venue change her to a
different location.

Though this still applies, i think the deeper realization i have is that -

You need to know what the steps are from eye contact to sex, and what you have to do to get there. and lead the woman there, by constantly escalating, step by step.

So you are being THE MAN here!, and that is what is most attractive to a woman, and triggers that womanly response in her that she must follow you. and she finds you irresistible (sexual polarity - like opposites of a magnet attract each other!)

[Maver1ck]

I see some guys, (including me at times), don't know what to do next.
Some suggestions -

1. Rehearsing all the steps in your mind before you go into sets. (at home)
2. chunking the whole process down to small steps and mastering each step in the process.
3. I personally prefer mystery method, as it provides such a simple structure.
4. Having a cheat sheet with 3 openers, and other materials in it.
5. Having buddies that you can practice this out on.
6. Get in the mood to chat, by talking with buddies. or with women you are not attracted to. just talk, talk talk. gets you in the mood. (like a warm up) + builds great social proof!

Some of the things that might help you guys out there!