Dallas PUA

The first date is my main sticking point. I can approach the girl (lately mostly daygame) and I often have at least ok reactions (they never think of me as weirdo), I talk to her a bit and it's either "Nice meeting you, bye." if she is not interested or I get her phone number. Text game is one of my strengths and I usually do cocky-funny stuff. I can feel that she becomes really interested and we arrange a date.

Just the other day I went out with this beautiful tall girl and we were talking and laughing. I had relaxed body language and good eye contact. It turned out we were really similar, liked the same stuff, etc. I did some light kino (touching her arm and thigh) and she wasn't flinching. I finally went for a kiss and ran into a wall. She said she wasn't ready for a relationship. Really!? Terrible excuse...

I went home asking myself what did I do wrong. I'm missing something. I really liked this girl and now it's all over. Female interest is so volatile, fleeting thing.

I would appreciate some advice about solidifying attraction and kino escalation on the first date. Thanks.

What kind of "date" are you taking them on?

Check out one of my tried and true favorites back in the day:
http://www.dallaspua.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=1184&p=5128&hilit=wine#p5128
Used this multiple of times with great success.

Search for my LR's using the search function. I always try to explain my strategy when writing LR so you may find them useful.

I've had the same experience with you.