Approaching a HB10

[Maver1ck]

I had trouble approaching this HB10. she is smoking hot. beautiful face and great body. she works out at 24 hr fitness. she saw me on and off working out at this place over 2 yrs.

so she recognized my face. I knew that I should just open her, but my old inertia has reared its ugly head. and i waited, waited, and waited and talked myself out of it.

Previously, My thoughts would have been,
' wow! do I even have a chance?',
' she probably has a boyfriend!'
' she won't be interested in me' etc., garbage.

now I did feel like that I could approach and talk to her. but still didn't do it.

Now, as I walked away from her, the thought process was -
1. why am I putting her on a pedestal?
2. she has a beautiful face and body. but what do I know about her?
3. I don't know anything of her dark side.

So I looked at her and just observed my thoughts. and it is clear that I don't care. and I can just approach her easily.

My inner game has improved a lot since I started the habit of journaling. and observing my thought process, whenever there seems to be an obstacle or some kind of difficulty.

Try journaling your thoughts and also go out a lot. have a lot of approaches! that helps a lot. It takes time to build this skill.

[deafukraini]

I had trouble approaching this HB10. she is smoking hot. beautiful face and great body. she works out at 24 hr fitness. she saw me on and off working out at this place over 2 yrs.

so she recognized my face. I knew that I should just open her, but my old inertia has reared its ugly head. and i waited, waited, and waited and talked myself out of it.

Previously, My thoughts would have been,
' wow! do I even have a chance?',
' she probably has a boyfriend!'
' she won't be interested in me' etc., garbage.

now I did feel like that I could approach and talk to her. but still didn't do it.

Now, as I walked away from her, the thought process was -
1. why am I putting her on a pedestal?
2. she has a beautiful face and body. but what do I know about her?
3. I don't know anything of her dark side.

So I looked at her and just observed my thoughts. and it is clear that I don't care. and I can just approach her easily.

My inner game has improved a lot since I started the habit of journaling. and observing my thought process, whenever there seems to be an obstacle or some kind of difficulty.

Try journaling your thoughts and also go out a lot. have a lot of approaches! that helps a lot. It takes time to build this skill.

This is what I realized... If you start to hit on HB6's or 7's then they would be tougher to work on... because many guys are afraid to hit on HB 9's or 10's... so they don't really have a shield... well depends on the situation if everyones hitting on them.. then No.. but if this is a fitness center... why not ??? Slap yourself three times and you'll forget what you thought about... (do it in private) because pain makes you not think... DO IT.

[Rainman]

heres a really powerful question to ask yourself when you start to get into your own head about an HB10.....11.....100 whatever. ask yourself this when you start to get all worked up and are comming up with excuses not to open her. ask "why wouldn't she want to be in a relationship with me"......kind of a steep question to jump off of right? well it will do one of 2 things

1:you tell yourself ABSOLUTELY NO REASON grab your nuts and go open her with that mindset because you know that you have everything she would want in a relationship and there is NO reason you couldn't get her

or

2:begin listing off all the self deprocating reasons why you suck.....at which point you need way more inner game work before you hit the field so take a step back and rediscover yourself before you can begin to discover that magic she holds in her pants.

99.9 percent of people will be the former of these 2 options but if you happen to be the latter don't jump off a bridge just yet-realize that you need to do some self assessment and discovery before being really successful in the field. take that lesson and make the progress you need