Dallas PUA

I record every sexual liason I have with women in as much detail as I can recall as quickly after the event as possible. Over the years, I've developed a rather extensive 'book' of my encounters. After I fuck a girl for a while I usually don't record the encounter unless something significant occurs.

Anyway, I sat down earlier today to record my exploits from the weekend and after I was finished I read through some of the other entries and I noticed an interesting tactic that I've been using for years.

The first time I ever fuck a girl I noticed that a lot of the times I would stop in the middle of sex and tell the girl that I just wasn't going to cum. Usually it's because I'm drunk or tired or she's not doing what I want her to do or she's super hot and I'm a little nervous (hey, I'm human). This, of course, was after I get her good and wet, have been at it for a relatively long period of time, and/or could tell that they had cum already. So, I stop and I say:

Bull Run: "I'm sorry baby, but it's just going not to happen..." And, I leave it at that. Every woman on the planet knows what that sentence means given the context.

Now, in almost every instance the girl has a look of disappointment and rejection come across her face. She wants you to drain your balls on her. She wants the validation of YOUR orgasim. She wants your alpha infused cum in and on her body. Doing so validates her beauty and your desire for her. Not doing so is probably the biggest take-away/disqualifier that I can imagine.

In her her mind, your words and lack of baby batter say "Honey, I'm tired and you're just not hot enough, you suck in the sack, you don't know how to please a man. You gave it your best but you're playing in the big leagues now. Let's go to sleep...sweet dreams."

The key is that after you say it, you have to dismount and act like it's no big deal. She'll always ask you what's wrong or if there's something she can do. DO NOT take this bait. If you do and she finishes you off then you have totally ruined the dynamic of the take-away. AND, you've given her way too much sexual confidence (remember you want your women to feel as if you are just a little better than she is so that she'll always vie for you affection and this absolutely must extend to the bedroom). You have to have an explaination ready and this is what I usually say:

Bull Run: "Thanks, but it's no big deal. This happens all the time. I just usually don't cum the first time. I'm weird man..."(the last part is optional, I say it because it's congruent with my personality so I can get away with a little self-depreciating humor).

Then, you go on to say something like this:

Bull Run: "Honestly, I don't cum all that often..." This is a straight up lie so when you start blowing your load with your lady on a regular basis she feels like she's really 'good' in the sack which, in my experience, gives her the confidence to want to fuck you more often/frequently. Also, it implies that you fuck a lot of girls...pre-selection.

The WAY I say it is just as important. By this time, I'm usually laying on my back, with my eyes closed, getting ready to doze off. The change in body language means that you're 100% serious about what you're saying.

Again, remember, she'll try to convince you otherwise which is when you pull her next to you and you say someting like "shhh...it's fine..." Then, you go to sleep.

The impact of this tactic is that you literally unleash the sexual goddess in your woman. Most likely, she'll wake you up in the middle of the night with her mouth on your cock. She'll definitely want to fuck you the next morning. And, she'll absolutely be super eager to see you again and give it a shot the next time.

This tactic opens up the door to conversations about sex, which gives you the opportunity to candidely discuss what you enjoy in the sack. This is especially important if you're in to more devious sexual exploits such as yours truely. More than that though is that it creates the dynamic that she has to WORK to provide YOU with sexual pleasure. This is what you want from a woman.

In the end, when I've run this tactic I've never had a girl fuck once and then bolt. She always comes back to finish the job. Every girl puts forth much, much more effort to please you. Every girl will do whatever it is that you want for them to do, obviously within reason as it can take a little bit of time to get them 'ready' for the fun stuff.

DO NOT run this tactic in the following circumstances:

1. You just want to fuck her ONCE. Obviously, if you want to just fuck her once then you have no reason for the investment. Just fuck her, do what you want, and then move on.
2. She's not secure enough to deal with such a devastating take-away. This is hard to decipher but you don't want to kick a girl while she's down. Then again, who fucking cares. If she's that insecure in the sack then she's not worth bedding again. Still though, I'm a dick but not a total dick so I don't run it if I don't think they can handle it.
3. You just want her to be a fuck buddy. I've found this creates more of a boyfriend/potential LTR frame because you're confiding in her. So tread lightly if she's just a girl you want to fuck a few times.

Best post I have read in a while.

I don't personally see myself using this as I am pretty tame in bed, but damn can I see this working well for a freak like yourself. What a great way to make the girl more inclined to do some of the crazy shit you want.

By nature girls want to please their guy, yes, even the guy she is just starting to fuck. Even though I consider myself a very selfish lover, girls still want me to be pleased. It is just their nature. Telling a girl she can't get you off will set a fire under her while a carrot dangles in front of her. Imagine her need to please you then, it will run wild.

Nice insight... It is totally true. Once a girl has come to the conclusion that you are going to be inside her all her defenses are down, she is highlly emotional and open to your influence. I have used similar lines to get a girl to step up the freakiness. They want the validation, and often they will offer to do whatever you want to get off. It never really crossed my mind to use it as a way to build emotional bond are lock in repeat buisness....

PEACE

[QUOTE=Bull Run;40703]I record every sexual liason I have with women in as much detail as I can recall as quickly after the event as possible. Over the years, I've developed a rather extensive 'book' of my encounters. After I fuck a girl for a while I usually don't record the encounter unless something significant occurs.

Anyway, I sat down earlier today to record my exploits from the weekend and after I was finished I read through some of the other entries and I noticed an interesting tactic that I've been using for years.

The first time I ever fuck a girl I noticed that a lot of the times I would stop in the middle of sex and tell the girl that I just wasn't going to cum. Usually it's because I'm drunk or tired or she's not doing what I want her to do or she's super hot and I'm a little nervous (hey, I'm human). This, of course, was after I get her good and wet, have been at it for a relatively long period of time, and/or could tell that they had cum already. So, I stop and I say:

Bull Run: "I'm sorry baby, but it's just going not to happen..." And, I leave it at that. Every woman on the planet knows what that sentence means given the context.

Now, in almost every instance the girl has a look of disappointment and rejection come across her face. She wants you to drain your balls on her. She wants the validation of YOUR orgasim. She wants your alpha infused cum in and on her body. Doing so validates her beauty and your desire for her. Not doing so is probably the biggest take-away/disqualifier that I can imagine.

In her her mind, your words and lack of baby batter say "Honey, I'm tired and you're just not hot enough, you suck in the sack, you don't know how to please a man. You gave it your best but you're playing in the big leagues now. Let's go to sleep...sweet dreams."

The key is that after you say it, you have to dismount and act like it's no big deal. She'll always ask you what's wrong or if there's something she can do. DO NOT take this bait. If you do and she finishes you off then you have totally ruined the dynamic of the take-away. AND, you've given her way too much sexual confidence (remember you want your women to feel as if you are just a little better than she is so that she'll always vie for you affection and this absolutely must extend to the bedroom). You have to have an explaination ready and this is what I usually say:

Bull Run: "Thanks, but it's no big deal. This happens all the time. I just usually don't cum the first time. I'm weird man..."(the last part is optional, I say it because it's congruent with my personality so I can get away with a little self-depreciating humor).

Then, you go on to say something like this:

Bull Run: "Honestly, I don't cum all that often..." This is a straight up lie so when you start blowing your load with your lady on a regular basis she feels like she's really 'good' in the sack which, in my experience, gives her the confidence to want to fuck you more often/frequently. Also, it implies that you fuck a lot of girls...pre-selection.

The WAY I say it is just as important. By this time, I'm usually laying on my back, with my eyes closed, getting ready to doze off. The change in body language means that you're 100% serious about what you're saying.

Again, remember, she'll try to convince you otherwise which is when you pull her next to you and you say someting like "shhh...it's fine..." Then, you go to sleep.

The impact of this tactic is that you literally unleash the sexual goddess in your woman. Most likely, she'll wake you up in the middle of the night with her mouth on your cock. She'll definitely want to fuck you the next morning. And, she'll absolutely be super eager to see you again and give it a shot the next time.

This tactic opens up the door to conversations about sex, which gives you the opportunity to candidely discuss what you enjoy in the sack. This is especially important if you're in to more devious sexual exploits such as yours truely. More than that though is that it creates the dynamic that she has to WORK to provide YOU with sexual pleasure. This is what you want from a woman.

In the end, when I've run this tactic I've never had a girl fuck once and then bolt. She always comes back to finish the job. Every girl puts forth much, much more effort to please you. Every girl will do whatever it is that you want for them to do, obviously within reason as it can take a little bit of time to get them 'ready' for the fun stuff.

DO NOT run this tactic in the following circumstances:

1. You just want to fuck her ONCE. Obviously, if you want to just fuck her once then you have no reason for the investment. Just fuck her, do what you want, and then move on.
2. She's not secure enough to deal with such a devastating take-away. This is hard to decipher but you don't want to kick a girl while she's down. Then again, who fucking cares. If she's that insecure in the sack then she's not worth bedding again. Still though, I'm a dick but not a total dick so I don't run it if I don't think they can handle it.
3. You just want her to be a fuck buddy. I've found this creates more of a boyfriend/potential LTR frame because you're confiding in her. So tread lightly if she's just a girl you want to fuck a few times.[/QUOTE]

This is solid! Ive always felt like I have to get my rocks off or she may not give me a second chance...ha!

How do you think it would be best to calibrate this if you're already in an LTR??? Or should you try this at all (if in an LTR)???

This makes me think that you can probably reverse ALOT of shit (that could potentially damage her/his perception of you and lower your value) around the other way, and make it look as if you are still higher value. Hmmm... interesting. Thank you for helping me see this....

[QUOTE=Bull Run;40703] Most likely, she'll wake you up in the middle of the night with her mouth on your cock. She'll definitely want to fuck you the next morning.[/QUOTE]

I chuckled at this. I soo wish my girlfriend would wake me up with a blow job and/or sex! :) My highschool sweetheart used to do this to me on occasion back in tha day and it was the shit!

[QUOTE=Bull Run;40703]Every girl will do whatever it is that you want for them to do, obviously within reason as it can take a little bit of time to get them 'ready' for the fun stuff.[/QUOTE]

Ive always liked cumming in a chics mouth but rarely have I had the priveledge. Even after all the different women Ive had blow jobs from I'm still too passive to request this regularly. The worste thing for me is to be about to blow and tell her Im gonna come in her mouth and she shakes her head and murmers Unh Unh!!! I have nightmares about that lol!

I still need to work on how to get what I want whenever I want in bed...:rolleyes:

[QUOTE=Carnal;40771]
Ive always liked cumming in a chics mouth but rarely have I had the priveledge. Even after all the different women Ive had blow jobs from I'm still too passive to request this regularly. The worste thing for me is to be about to blow and tell her Im gonna come in her mouth and she shakes her head and murmers Unh Unh!!! I have nightmares about that lol!

I still need to work on how to get what I want whenever I want in bed...:rolleyes:[/QUOTE]


IMO this is all about delivery. I can't recall a time when I have requested just about any place I wanted to cum and the girl said no. And when I say REQUESTED what I really mean is more of a demand. I am not asking permission I am saying I AM doing this. Girls seem to respond well to this, considering most, even to this day, are still submissive creatures. Plus if you tell a girl you are about to pull out and cum in her mouth and she says no, guess where that cum is about to go. There is one alternative if she doesn't open her mouth and that is all over her face.

[QUOTE=playercool;40772]IMO this is all about delivery. I can't recall a time when I have requested just about any place I wanted to cum and the girl said no. And when I say REQUESTED what I really mean is more of a demand. I am not asking permission I am saying I AM doing this. Girls seem to respond well to this, considering most, even to this day, are still submissive creatures. Plus if you tell a girl you are about to pull out and cum in her mouth and she says no, guess where that cum is about to go. There is one alternative if she doesn't open her mouth and that is all over her face.[/QUOTE]

Or in her hair :D

Her: "You came in my hair!"
You: "Well you should have opened wide then, next time you'll know."

If there's a next time that is.

PC is right man. When it comes to sex the key is to just do what you want. If it turns out that they didn't like what you did you can always use the 'I just got carried away' card.

An example, I was fucking a chick the other day. She's pretty young but still pretty experimental in the sack. Anyway, she was riding me and I decided that I was going to choke her. Yes, girls DO like this. No, you won't end up with a dead girl on your cock. The girls that DO like this, and you'd be surprised how many, in fact, do, don't just like being choked. No, they LOVE being choked. They ride your cock, you choke them, they pass out, you keep fucking them, then they wake back up to probably the most intense O they'll ever have in their lifetime. Seriously.

But, I digress. She was riding my magnificant cock and I started choking her. She did NOT like this. She starting flailing around. And sort of slapped my hands away from her neck.

HB Young One: "You just choked me..."
Bull Run: "Uh huh. You don't like that?"
HB Young One: "No!!!"
Bull Run: "Okay...get on your back."

She got on her back and I blew my load on her face as a form of punishment for denying my choking overtures. Then, she said something like:

HB Young One: "Jesus...you could have told me you were going to cum on my face so I could have been prepared..."
Bull Run: "I suppose..."

She cleaned up. I rolled over to go to sleep. She crawled back in bed and started snuggling against my back. Eventually, I rolled over and put my arm under her head and rewarded her for still being sweet even in the face of my devious sexual exploits.

Point is this. Whatever girl you're with has already decided to fuck you. That's about 85% of what's really important to get repeat business from her. Once a girl's fucked a guy she's infinitely more likely to fuck him again. Now, the way I see it there are really two types of girls we're talking about.

The girl that fucks one guy at a time and the girl that's riding the Cock Carousel. In the former case, this girl is fucking just you and that's probably how she rolls. She doesn't fuck just to fuck. She holds out for an Alpha male and fucks only him (until she gets bored or he leaves). Since you're the guy that she's, literally, been waiting for her aim is to please you at pretty much any cost. She will do what you want as long as you don't give her the option to say no. And, she'll gladly keep fucking you even if you have a small dick (and it IS a big deal guys, women LOVE big cocks but if they like you they'll overlook a less than stellar meat stick), even if you suck in bed, even if you do something weird that she doesn't like.

The girl riding the Cock Carousel is a different story. Sure, she fucked you once which makes her infinitely more likely to fuck you again. But, the aforementioned three reasons are very important to her. Cock size, skills, abilities, and technique become VERY important to her because it's what sets you apart from the other guys she's fucking. Most likely you're all Alpha males so that won't really set you apart from the mix. No, it's going to be the guy that possesses the other 15% that wins the day. She's going to judge each one on cock size, technique, and abilities/skill and she's going to pick the one magical cock that delievers the most in those categories. And, that will be the guy she decides to get off the cock carousel with. The reason is because that shit is important to her otherwise she'd be in the first category and would be happy fucking an Alpha male with less than stellar sexual attributes.

Understand though, that in both categories, the guy that just does what he does and leads in bed and is aggressive and doesn't apologize for what he does and LIKES in the sack is going to be the guy she KEEPS fucking. It's the guys that tell a girl what they want or talk about what kind of sex they like in the hopes of getting her to comply later that lose. Just fuck her, fuck her proper, do what you wish with her, don't act like what you're doing is a big deal, and don't apologize. You'd be surprised what you can get away with...

[QUOTE=Carnal;40771]How do you think it would be best to calibrate this if you're already in an LTR??? Or should you try this at all (if in an LTR)???[/QUOTE]


This will not work in an LTR. It has to be something that you do with a clean slate. It will be an important dynamic though if you end up in an LTR with her. It sets the tone that she has to work for your nut and that's just an awesome, powerful thing man.

Dude, I literally lol'ed a couple of times while reading this thread.

And br, you're a kinky mofo. I do choke girls, but never to the point of them passing out...that would just freak me the fuck out!

[QUOTE=Bull Run;40780]This will not work in an LTR. It has to be something that you do with a clean slate. It will be an important dynamic though if you end up in an LTR with her. It sets the tone that she has to work for your nut and that's just an awesome, powerful thing man.[/QUOTE]

Yes it does. :D I use it.