Emoting back to them (jealosy plotines!!)
Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 12:47 pmSo I stumbled across something that I frequently do that has helped me get day2's (and prevent flakes). I have noticed that this tends to work better with really hot girls (8's and up) or at least girls that have guys constantly pining for their attention.
One of the things I never had to learn and have always been done natuarally is emote emotions back to people and present myself as someone who is easy to relate to. An example of this would be saying something like "I can't stand it when a girl is only into me for sex and doesn't want to invest in me emotionally." This is something a lot of girls have thought to themselves but haven't heard a guy say to them before. That is obviousely a general example and not something I would say (well... maybe). Like I said, I tend to do this naturally and it's never scripted or canned.
In my pursuit of higher calliber women (looks specifically) I realized that this tended to be something that didn't come as easily for me to do. It could be for any number of reason. Maybe in a lot of ways I really didn't relate well to someone that was that insecure and judgemental, or popular for that matter. In another post I made once I asked some of you guys for advice with this really hot girl that would constantly express interest or call/text me first to see what I was doing and then flake. One of the replies (think it was Bull Run) said this is just what popular girls do. They throw out a bunch of feelers aka send the same text to a bunch of guys and go with the most appealing option at the end of the night. I thought to myself there has to be way to use stuff like this in your favor...
Recently I have been seeing this Physical trainer with an amazing body. I might have fucked that up by getting too sexual too fast with her which is another story for another day, but the point is things haven't gone quite as I've wanted them to with her. So I was at work the other day and This girl I met online (fitness model we'll call her Sweet D) that I had a lunch date with and ended up flaking on me hit me up on google talk. I kinda took it for disinterest when it didn't happen the first and kinda quit talking to her. She said she was kinda seeing this other guy while we were talking about meeting up and she was sorry we never hooked up cause he ended up being a total jerkface. All of a sudden this little lightbulb went off in my head. I calmly said it was cool and that I kinda had the same thing going on with the girl I was seeing. Then I mentioned that her and I were supposed to hang out that night but didn't really want to, and would love an excuse to break my plans with her. Sweet D, an hb9 fitness model almost immediately responded "Hang out with me instead"!!!! I said ok and we went out that night. I realized that when truly positioned as the option you are choosing over another as beautiful or prettier girl a really hot girl's insecurity will almost automatically kick in and make her want to be the more desirable option. Also this is an emotion that they commonly feel when 2-3 guys ask them out and they are picking the one they want to see that night. It set's you apart as a someone who is also very desired. Thinking to myself "it can't really be that easy" I tried it again. I talked to a girl who is an ex go-go dancer with a near perfect body and mentioned briefly (don't overdo it cause then you will just look stupid) that I had reluctantly agreed to plans with girl tonight that used to date one of my friends (another common occurrance with girls) and didn't quite feel right about kicking it with a friend's ex. I then said almost verbatum "I would love an excuse to break my plans with her". Her and I are going out tonight now.
These are 2 specific scenerios that girls are in all the time, and can definately relate. In my case both circumstances were true. Anyways, I'm 2 for 2 with this and am sure there is even more going on than what I've figured out so far, so thought I would share it you guys.
One of the things I never had to learn and have always been done natuarally is emote emotions back to people and present myself as someone who is easy to relate to. An example of this would be saying something like "I can't stand it when a girl is only into me for sex and doesn't want to invest in me emotionally." This is something a lot of girls have thought to themselves but haven't heard a guy say to them before. That is obviousely a general example and not something I would say (well... maybe). Like I said, I tend to do this naturally and it's never scripted or canned.
In my pursuit of higher calliber women (looks specifically) I realized that this tended to be something that didn't come as easily for me to do. It could be for any number of reason. Maybe in a lot of ways I really didn't relate well to someone that was that insecure and judgemental, or popular for that matter. In another post I made once I asked some of you guys for advice with this really hot girl that would constantly express interest or call/text me first to see what I was doing and then flake. One of the replies (think it was Bull Run) said this is just what popular girls do. They throw out a bunch of feelers aka send the same text to a bunch of guys and go with the most appealing option at the end of the night. I thought to myself there has to be way to use stuff like this in your favor...
Recently I have been seeing this Physical trainer with an amazing body. I might have fucked that up by getting too sexual too fast with her which is another story for another day, but the point is things haven't gone quite as I've wanted them to with her. So I was at work the other day and This girl I met online (fitness model we'll call her Sweet D) that I had a lunch date with and ended up flaking on me hit me up on google talk. I kinda took it for disinterest when it didn't happen the first and kinda quit talking to her. She said she was kinda seeing this other guy while we were talking about meeting up and she was sorry we never hooked up cause he ended up being a total jerkface. All of a sudden this little lightbulb went off in my head. I calmly said it was cool and that I kinda had the same thing going on with the girl I was seeing. Then I mentioned that her and I were supposed to hang out that night but didn't really want to, and would love an excuse to break my plans with her. Sweet D, an hb9 fitness model almost immediately responded "Hang out with me instead"!!!! I said ok and we went out that night. I realized that when truly positioned as the option you are choosing over another as beautiful or prettier girl a really hot girl's insecurity will almost automatically kick in and make her want to be the more desirable option. Also this is an emotion that they commonly feel when 2-3 guys ask them out and they are picking the one they want to see that night. It set's you apart as a someone who is also very desired. Thinking to myself "it can't really be that easy" I tried it again. I talked to a girl who is an ex go-go dancer with a near perfect body and mentioned briefly (don't overdo it cause then you will just look stupid) that I had reluctantly agreed to plans with girl tonight that used to date one of my friends (another common occurrance with girls) and didn't quite feel right about kicking it with a friend's ex. I then said almost verbatum "I would love an excuse to break my plans with her". Her and I are going out tonight now.
These are 2 specific scenerios that girls are in all the time, and can definately relate. In my case both circumstances were true. Anyways, I'm 2 for 2 with this and am sure there is even more going on than what I've figured out so far, so thought I would share it you guys.