Presuming

[Bull Run]

I was thinking about the way that I talk to women the other day and I came to realization that I presume A LOT when I talk to them. For example, let's say that I just met a girl (or even talked to them for the first time on the phone if I pulled them from the Net) I'll say things like:

Bull Run: "I wake up at 5:15 every morning to hit the gym."
HB Random: "Really?!?!?!" (Keep in mind that this is a DHV on my part because virtually everyone on the planet admires people that do productive things while the world is sleeping)
HB Random: "I'm totally NOT a morning person..."
Bull Run: "That's alright, I'll just drag your pretty ass out of bed and you'll be a morning person then..."
HB Random: "Only after you buy me breakfast!!!!"
Bull Run: "Well, you do realize that if I feed you then I'm going to make sure I get fed as well..."
HB Random: "Really? We'll see about that..."
Bull Run: "Right...like it's only up to you..."

Do you see what's happened here? You've created a false reality. You've fast forwarded past the 'get to know you bullshit' and are now PAST the seduction phase. Keep in mind that we're all adults and we understand what the order of operations usually is with the other sex...meet, build comfort, go home, then WAKE UP the next morning. So, play on that. Skip straight to the waking up part within the confines of a false reality and you'll find that you'll collect your $200 as you pass Go.

The reason why this type of thing works so well is because it subcommunicates so much about you as a person:

-You're confident enough to say something so outlandish
-You've presumed that she likes you enough to fuck you, again it implies confidence
-You're creative
-You're funny...afterall, her higher functioning portions of her brain will write it off as a joke while her lower functioning, animalistic portions will be aroused by they implied sexual interaction
-You're socially savvy. I can't tell you how important it is for women to believe that you understand exacty what is going on, when it's going on, and to act appropriately based on the situation.

Remember gentlemen, it's better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission...in order to pull that off, you have to PRESUME and be CONFIDENT in doing so.

[Guest]

Great post man. No doubt that confidence is attractive to women. Presuming, like you say, that something good is going to happen to you is the surest way to communicate that you're a confident person and you're used to succeeding.

[Guest]

Great post.

I think one of the major points with presuming/implying is that she has already said yes in her subconcious mind becUse she did not cognitively say no. So when you decide to bounce her to your place, she has already said yes (unknowingly of course) which would increase your close ratio...