Using your friend girls effectively...
Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2010 2:04 pm
This is one of the more random thoughts I regularly kick around, just thought I'd share, I don't know if anyone else has shared this.
It is something that I use that combines a couple of things.
First it uses the fun, dancing monkey routines and keeps the environment light and fun.
Second, it uses 3 "attraction switches" namely, leader of men, protector of loved ones and pre-selection.
Third, it creates an inside joke between you and the women involved.
What I like to do when other guys approach women I am either seeing, or friends with is lightly push the guys onto my friends or partner. not physically, but I like to kinda "help" the guy out a little bit with talking to my "friend".
When guys come over and start talking to women you are with, usually they will introduce themselves to you first... at this point I turn to my friend and say, "This is so-n-so". Then I turn away and watch the looks she gives me. I always give my shit eatin grin here as she does the "please, why did you do this?" look. Once I get the look, I jump back into the conversion and start asking him the typical "lifestyle" questions that women secretly want but somtimes aren't bold enough to ask for upfront. Once I establish those I bring her back into the interaction with something like, "You know, so-n-so REALLY likes (insert whatever he mentions) too!" Then I turn away and watch the looks again.
Usually they either get a girl to save them or they get to the point of "I wish he'd stop that." and that's when I end it. Otherwise you are just pushing too far.
I always have fun with this, so I thought I'd share it, plus it can create a unique sexually charged environment since at this point it's easy to insert (pun intended) direct sexual comments based on this guy wanting to bump uglies with her.
It is something that I use that combines a couple of things.
First it uses the fun, dancing monkey routines and keeps the environment light and fun.
Second, it uses 3 "attraction switches" namely, leader of men, protector of loved ones and pre-selection.
Third, it creates an inside joke between you and the women involved.
What I like to do when other guys approach women I am either seeing, or friends with is lightly push the guys onto my friends or partner. not physically, but I like to kinda "help" the guy out a little bit with talking to my "friend".
When guys come over and start talking to women you are with, usually they will introduce themselves to you first... at this point I turn to my friend and say, "This is so-n-so". Then I turn away and watch the looks she gives me. I always give my shit eatin grin here as she does the "please, why did you do this?" look. Once I get the look, I jump back into the conversion and start asking him the typical "lifestyle" questions that women secretly want but somtimes aren't bold enough to ask for upfront. Once I establish those I bring her back into the interaction with something like, "You know, so-n-so REALLY likes (insert whatever he mentions) too!" Then I turn away and watch the looks again.
Usually they either get a girl to save them or they get to the point of "I wish he'd stop that." and that's when I end it. Otherwise you are just pushing too far.
I always have fun with this, so I thought I'd share it, plus it can create a unique sexually charged environment since at this point it's easy to insert (pun intended) direct sexual comments based on this guy wanting to bump uglies with her.