Hey guys, just wanted to share my insights on how to truly become the best at something from my own experience leading to such a status in the area of inter-sexual social skills, social logistics, seduction and dating.
I firmly believe that the only way we can grow and evolve into a position of mastery of anything is to challenge our social muscle to see how much we can stretch it, push the envelope to raise the bar on what our threshold for possibility, pain and pressure is. In other words, putting ourselves in situations that cause our gut to be filled with that acidic, burning feeling is a good thing.
For instance, if you want to master the martial arts, then you would train with the Late Bruce Lee, Seagal, Jeff Speakman, Tony Jaa, Van Damme, Chuck Norris, etc.
If you want to become the best corporate sales man or sales woman---then stop avoiding speaking with the C-level contact of a firm such as the CEO, COO, or CTO and going to the mid-level management or some other sub-ordinate entity. The only reason why you do that is because you know that a c-level will tell you where to go if you don't have your game on within seconds of making contact, will throw objection-based punches at you like Mike Tyson on a bad night and will really challenge your value to the firm. However you will learn how to sell to the toughest of 'em all and under the most difficult circumstances.
Similary, If you want to master pick up or seduction, then stop trying to do the easy.
I see too many guys limiting themselves to:
1. Going up to 1 average looking girl who is just by happenstance lonely and readily available to talk.
You should be going up to
A woman who has a high degree of social value(not merely looks, but style, class, calibre, intelligence, ambition, high income level
high degree of popularity, a high degree of demand from the male population, a large social circle, a woman who has heard it all before)
In addition, 2 sets, 3 sets and when they are busy, or in logic mode and will shit test you mercilessly.
This will force you to really become socially adaptable, be quick on the draw and think on your feet using your reflexes
2. Only going up to 1 woman-not a woman part of a larger unit such as with another woman, man or group
You need to learn how to Dominate, Divide and Conquer and add value to large social circles as most women
of beauty and quality are typically found in them.
You will learn how to really use your body, vocal projection, facial expressions, vocal tonality, posture
in the most powerful way as you will need to amp these non-verbals up to the max to own a large group
You will learn how to Divide and Conquer, Interest and Engage Large groups of people-win over multiple women, dominate and lead
multiple men , while at the same time keep your eye on the prize and work her to get her attracted to you.
This will further train you to become not just a wanna-be, desparate PUA who thinks of life is a Game between
him and a woman, but someone who is a SOCIAL GURU and MAESTRO----Can someone say Lady Killer to the Maax!
3. Only trying to pick up easy, sleazy frolicking bar-ho's that are 19 , super-insecure, high strung, attention-seeking
and thus want any sort of validation or quick fix to put a band-aid on their self-image and give them a dose of temporary and superficial utopia. Chicks that are already partially intoxicated and have their undies on auto-drop mode at 1 am every Friday
and Saturday night!
Remember Game is not reflective of some cheap little victory walking into a club, spitting out some high-octane
party guy verbage and coincidentally getting the hottest who is also the stupidest, easiest and most insecure woman
to make out with you.
Game is when you can attract and seduce-fuck the mind----of a super hot, intelligent, ambitious, powerful, secure
successful real woman who has super high standards and a complicated set of instructions on how to trigger her
attraction circuitry. Furthermore, to get her to want to meet up with you again and again is indicative of game since
it is rare for a woman to stay interested in a man that she met while in seductive mode at a club or bar, in normal or logic mode
the day after.
4. Only going up to woman, with indirect or neutral style openers-that neither challenge or tease a woman nor
convey honestly and with genuiness any intent or interest in her.
Learn to be Gung-ho direct with your sexual desires because most women, especially ethnic women-Latin, African and European
are used to and love the "natural, charming approach"
Learn to tease a woman...Poke fun at her, tease her right off the get go.
For instance --I will just say to women that are walking by me in the mall.
"Why......and point to their shoes....you need a foot transplant babydoll"
"What's up with those ugly pants...were you smoking crack when you bought them?"
5. Avoid going up to women while they are busy buying something, hired guns, super-hot model type women that have
more importantly heard every line or approach scenario in the Player's book, super bitchy, intelligent, ambitious, high quality
classy women
You need to learn how to positively interrupt people. Most people you want to talk with , including most women will not
be in ideal situations of being in one position or by themselves. Also, store clerks or hot hostesses outside of restaurants
because they have inate high social value due to the countless number of "hits" they get to their site, if you know what I mean
each day and so to really showcase a challenge and a difference that sexually attracts and also intrigues them is indicative
of having game.
6.Avoid running Day game-where the women are in logic mode and act on rational rather than emotion/impulse
You need to expand your horizons and understand that statistically speaking there are just as many beautiful women
out on the streets and in the malls during the day as there are in night time social venue. Furthermore, what do you think
the hotties you see in the clubs and bars at night do during the day? Exactly, get their nails done, their hair styled, pedicures, go shopping for sexy clothes for the evening. Now where do you think they perform all of these errands at, rhetorically speaking of course? You got that right-The Mall.
Now Mall Game is a bit different and perhaps a bit trickier than day game only becaue women are in logic mode or in repel the hit mode versus being in seductive, playful and flirtatious mode which they typically are in, when they enter a night club or lounge.
You need to therefore learn how to go under their radar, capture their interest even when they are not looking to dish it out to anyone and to top it off are very busy and in a rush. In a club, most women are still, drunk, open for conversation-a bit easier if you ask me!
7. Avoid chatting up large groups- See my answer from 2.
8. Avoid truly seducing a woman's mind with intrigue and social and sexually attractive intelligence, but only run
dancing monkey, coyote ugly bar guy game.
Alot of you are afraid to really seduce a woman. You think that pick up is just about open-run high octane, monkey style
bar pimp material---like wearing a Journey shirt, downin' a shot of Jägermeister through your nose and walking up to women and saying
"Hey girls...I got a big one". Now do you honestly think that this type of bullshit will attract a super elite, high class, sophisticated woman. Fuck no. So how can you say that you are good when you can only dish out and attract easy, sleazy-n-breazy party chicks.
Learn to demonstrate your personality, knowledge of the world and all the things within it that have emotional significance to a woman
like wine, massage, spirituality, new age philosophy, history, magic, esp, palm reading, hand structure analysis, culture, cuisine, hot spots to travel to, information technology, math, science, pscyhology, human behaviour, inter-sexual relationships, etc Got it. When you combine "High Intrigue and Social Leader" game with "High Octane,Alpha Style Cave man" game than you really power pack your aresenal with some deadly weaponry.
9.Just go for the number close rather than an insta-date or a time bridge.
Remember, a number is a receipt for a future meeting. It is not intended to be the end but a consequence of it. Never prematurely just go for the number, after you demonstrate pre-opener value-open-attract-hook. You need to then isolate or insta-date a woman to a comfort location-qualify her( so that you can demonstrate that you need to have legitimate interest or a stake in her) before you will attempt to reconnect with her and then following this you need to build comfort with her if you want to have her consider you as boyfriend material. You can hybridize the Qualification phase with the Comfort phase as well. Once you have done this, then going for the number becomes natural as it indicates that you have a legitimate reason to want to stay in touch.
Now if you are not able to insta-date a woman, once again instead of getting her number prematurely, qualify her/build comfort with her and then suggest a date in the future for you to meet up right then and there. This is called a time bridge as you are creating a bridge between two moments in time---from the present to the future. As a result the number then become an obvious and will be treated with enthusiasm and excitement when you call-not coldness or abrasiveness.
10.Are constantly in game mode, rather than social leader mode. In other words, are too concerned and desparately seeking susan or just there to pick up women, rather than socialize and lead the interaction with everyone. You can never master pick up or seduction of the hottie, if you cannot first master pick up and seduction of everyone. You need to learn to be a social leader of men, women, children, the elderly. Talk to everyone! Most of you are scared.
This is pretty simple. A great seducer is a great statesman, a greate people builder, a value adder, a true lover of mankind, not just of women. So learn to be social, dominant of your interactions and a leader of them with everyone.
There are some tips, hopefully to drastically skyrocket your game!
McMaax
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